Does the married man you're with really like you or is he playing you if he says he loves you and is always touching smiling looking into your eyes and if you're in the same room he's watching you?

Answer 1

To me some older men are simply preditors for younger women. Around the age of 40 and up men go through a type of menopause (use to be called "midlife crisis" and although there are men that don't cheat, some do because they feel they are getting older, missing out on something and want to attract a young woman to feel youthful again. You are a trophy to play secret games with in a crowded room while he admires you secretly knowing you are his and some men will do almost anything to keep it that way. Be careful! You are not a doll up on a dusty shelf that he can haul down, wipe off and play with at his leisure. You are a person with feelings and a future. Remember, there is a wife at home (perhaps with children) that may possibly not know what is going on. How would you like to be that woman? You are a prize possession to this man at the moment. He may honestly think he loves you, but he's in love with youth and the "thrill of the run" landing a young and probably pretty girl. There is absolutely little future running around with a married man. If there was, then he would have no problem getting a divorce as soon as possible. I bet if you ask him when he is going to get a divorce and perhaps marry you, you'll get: "You know I love you with all my heart, but I just can't leave my wife right now .. she's ill" or how about this one, "I'm trying to find the right time to tell her, please be patient" or here's the real clincher, "It's more complicated than you think. Trust me!" (said the spider to the fly!) He wants the comfort of sneaking around on his wife, playing around with a mistress, and deciding when he has had enough and perhaps either returning to his wife or moving on to another mistress. It happens more often than you think. This decision is up to you, but there are always consequences to pay. Perhaps one day he'd look at you and find you aren't attractive enough for him. A pretty face is nothing if you don't have a good soul, keen heart and loyalty. In life, it's what is inside each of us that counts and not the outter part of us. Don't be dazzled by the attentive nature of this man, and always be on your toes. If you were wise you'd pick on a single guy anytime.