depends on the guy, some want a relationship, some just want the benefits.
Suck it.
The guy wants to be friends but doesn't want to have a relationship. This is mostly referred to as possible FWB (friends with benefits).
That is not nice. They are either friends or no friends. It is not fair on you if they are only being friends to get their way with you. Whatever way this is . I would dump them and find someone who really likes you.
Chances are, if he's saying he "doesn't want to ruin our friendship", then he really isn't all that interested in becoming more than friends with you. People usually only say that when they simply don't want to be anything but friends.
i want to be your best friend.....a week later ask to be more than friends trust me it really works
coming from a guy, if you really think that he wants to be with you, you should draw that line between you to and tell him that you want more and if he says that he doesnt want more then just friends with benefits, end the benefits.
You could be honest with the person. Tell them that you would like to grow this relationship to the next level. Or, you could stop becomin friends with benefits which should get his attention.
The only way to find out is to ask. You may get rejected but it's better than not working right?? Goodluck.
Tell Him you don't just wanna be friends with benefits, if he truly likes you ask him out on a date, if things dont work out then maybe you shouldn't be friends with benefits anymore. And if you do work out you can be boyfriend and girlfriend WITH BENEFITS
Get another boy friend if they really want to be more than friends they will be jealous if not just stay with that boy friend.And true friends are better than temperary boy friends.
Suck it.
ask him if he wants to hang and then once you have gotten to know him see if you really like him then ask if he want's to be more than friends if he say's no then stay friends but before you ask him make sure he doesnt have a girlfriend.
Easy answer, make the move yourself, or at least give him a more than obvious hint that you want more than being friends. That means something like saying "have you ever thought about being more than friends".
The simplest way to tell a person you want to be more than friends is to say. "I want to be more than just friends with you." Although most people probably feel inclined to add something to the phrase or change it into a way that truly shows their feelings.
Tell her that you really like her more than friends (:
well if you like them and want to be with them and spend time with them and like them more than just friends well if you like them and want to be with them and spend time with them and like them more than just friends
kiss him. he'll get it