Yes. Many people refer to female gays as Lesbians, but the word "gay" is just as acceptable. In fact, there is a growing movement to use the word "gay" instead of lesbian.
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It isn't better or worse; it's purely a personal thing and best not to stress about.
Follow your own wishes and needs, and remember there's no point making a fuss about it with others who mightn't share your views. Respect the views of others and don't push them.
A:It is absolutely okay to be a lesbian. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If it makes you happy, comfortable and it feels right to you then that is all that matters. A:I agree. It's OK to be a lesbian, and if you feel that your friends aren't OK with that, then it's their loss. I'm personally OK with having Gay/Bi friends. A:If you love another girl then love that girl ;). Don't let people say that being lesbian is stupid. If they say that then ignore them. A:Don't let anyone stop you from being a lesbian. That's your life, not your family or anybody else, it's okay to be a lesbian, just live your life and be happy. A:">A:Don't let others influence your sexuality. Something my cousin did to help was tell herself "It's my life, not theirs". A:">A:Its totally OK don't be all worried and stuff this site is all about asking questions so if you have any about being a lesbian or anything related to lesbianism feel free to post a message on my message board and ill answer it to the best of my (very limited) ability.It is totally OK to be a lesbian. Think about the examples you have in the world, the women who are open and proud. For intense you have Ellen DeGeneres, Rosie O'Donnell, Ellen's Wife, the chick off of Sex and the City, Queen Latifah, also even though this person is a bi she is still more lesbian than bi, Lady Gaga.
A:">A:Of course, being who you are is never wrong. people will always have their own opinion of you, no matter what your sexual orientation is. I've come to find out you're much happier when you come out, even to yourself - sometimes people go through a denial stage because they are afraid of how others will react, but once they get over that hump it takes a huge weight off of their shoulders. So yes, it is definitely OK to be lesbian. Be true to yourself, that's what matters most.It doesn't matter whether you're blue-eyed, enjoy cooking, are a lesbian, or would rather answer questions on WikiAnswers than wash the car...provided you're comfortable with your personal choices, and you're not deliberately doing anything to hurt others, it's all fine.
There's no need to discuss your choices with anyone else. Don't raise the subject, and if they do, give them a matter-of-fact answer, or none at all. If someone asks you how much you earn, you might politely tell them, 'I don't usually discuss personal things like that, hope you don't mind?' You can do the same about your sexuality, if you prefer: nobody has any right to casually ask for personal information about you and expect an answer.
If people are sufficiently ignorant as to be rude about your life, or what they believe to be the way you live, treat them the way you'd treat someone who looked at your pet dog and said, 'I hate that breed!' They're not even worth a moment of your time; go and do something else.
Generally speaking, don't volunteer personal information. Don't know about you, but I don't much like it when someone I hardly know starts telling me about their private life. If you feel you've a flag to fly, be careful where you fly it and check which way the wind's blowing before you even raise it. There's no need to challenge people unnecessarily: it achieves nothing but ill-feeling, and will probably come back to bite you.
Relax, enjoy life, do what's fun, and stay away from negative or prejudiced people who are very likely that way because they're not relaxing and enjoying life.
A:It's fine to be a Lesbian though you can't be pregnant if you are one then you have to go to a hospital to get sperm then you can be pregnant but yes it is okayyes. i think so if you were never really straight then yes. or you dated guys and realized you dont like guys. you like girls. but if your doing it for "thinking" dont because your eiether straight or not. you're also iinsulting the lesbian community.
YES i told my mom i was gay as a child and you should be proud of yourself if your gay so am i
No, they cant be gay because if they like boys they would be straight, its lesbian, not gay
No, boys cannot be lesbians. Lesbian refers to a woman who is attracted to other women. Boys who are attracted to other boys may identify as gay.
The term "lesbian" refers only to female homosexuals....therefore only females can be lesbian.
All lesbians are girls, but not all girls are lesbians.
Yes. The answer is yes.