It isn't better or worse; it's purely a personal thing and best not to stress about.
Follow your own wishes and needs, and remember there's no point making a fuss about it with others who mightn't share your views. Respect the views of others and don't push them.
A:It is absolutely okay to be a lesbian. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If it makes you happy, comfortable and it feels right to you then that is all that matters. A:I agree. It's OK to be a lesbian, and if you feel that your friends aren't OK with that, then it's their loss. I'm personally OK with having Gay/Bi friends. A:If you love another girl then love that girl ;). Don't let people say that being lesbian is stupid. If they say that then ignore them. A:Don't let anyone stop you from being a lesbian. That's your life, not your family or anybody else, it's okay to be a lesbian, just live your life and be happy. A:">A:Don't let others influence your sexuality. Something my cousin did to help was tell herself "It's my life, not theirs". A:">A:Its totally OK don't be all worried and stuff this site is all about asking questions so if you have any about being a lesbian or anything related to lesbianism feel free to post a message on my message board and ill answer it to the best of my (very limited) ability.It is totally OK to be a lesbian. Think about the examples you have in the world, the women who are open and proud. For intense you have Ellen DeGeneres, Rosie O'Donnell, Ellen's Wife, the chick off of Sex and the City, Queen Latifah, also even though this person is a bi she is still more lesbian than bi, Lady Gaga.
A:">A:Of course, being who you are is never wrong. people will always have their own opinion of you, no matter what your sexual orientation is. I've come to find out you're much happier when you come out, even to yourself - sometimes people go through a denial stage because they are afraid of how others will react, but once they get over that hump it takes a huge weight off of their shoulders. So yes, it is definitely OK to be lesbian. Be true to yourself, that's what matters most.It doesn't matter whether you're blue-eyed, enjoy cooking, are a lesbian, or would rather answer questions on WikiAnswers than wash the car...provided you're comfortable with your personal choices, and you're not deliberately doing anything to hurt others, it's all fine.
There's no need to discuss your choices with anyone else. Don't raise the subject, and if they do, give them a matter-of-fact answer, or none at all. If someone asks you how much you earn, you might politely tell them, 'I don't usually discuss personal things like that, hope you don't mind?' You can do the same about your sexuality, if you prefer: nobody has any right to casually ask for personal information about you and expect an answer.
If people are sufficiently ignorant as to be rude about your life, or what they believe to be the way you live, treat them the way you'd treat someone who looked at your pet dog and said, 'I hate that breed!' They're not even worth a moment of your time; go and do something else.
Generally speaking, don't volunteer personal information. Don't know about you, but I don't much like it when someone I hardly know starts telling me about their private life. If you feel you've a flag to fly, be careful where you fly it and check which way the wind's blowing before you even raise it. There's no need to challenge people unnecessarily: it achieves nothing but ill-feeling, and will probably come back to bite you.
Relax, enjoy life, do what's fun, and stay away from negative or prejudiced people who are very likely that way because they're not relaxing and enjoying life.
A:It's fine to be a Lesbian though you can't be pregnant if you are one then you have to go to a hospital to get sperm then you can be pregnant but yes it is okayno.
A lesbian is a girl who wants to have "relationships" with other girls, not boys.
yes in fact children can get married and children with adults and boys with boys
the same way that boys ask out girls
No that does not make you gay if u think lesbians are attracktive.I personaly like lesbians but i am not gay...
Lesbians. Dating tomboys
No, it is only gay for a boy to be sexually attracted to other boys.
It depends on the person, but most lesbians have many gay male friends.
because its their private art. boys also suck eachothers dick cause they enjoy it
Some men may find the idea of two women together sexually appealing due to societal norms and objectification. However, it is important to remember that sexual orientation and attraction are personal and individual experiences, and not all men are attracted to lesbians for the same reasons.
Lesbians usually are friends with other lesbians and so they have their friends find dates for them. Or lesbians look up the local lesbian bar (or lesbian night at the gay bar) in their city and go and offer to someone cute a drink. Or lesbians take their dogs to the local dog park/dog beach and scope out the other lesbians there and make small talk with them. Or lesbians make friends with another lesbian and then they just go out and do things together as friends until one of them gets the nerve to do something romantic. Or lesbians do an internet search for lesbian dating sites and meet other lesbians online and then arrange to meet in real life. some lesbians have lots of charm and the ability to get people to rethink their sexual orientation. this usually happens if the lesbian doesn't live around many other lesbians. they try to change the straight girls with sweet talking and compliments. most boyish lesbians known as butch's or dikes have an easier time cause they are closer to boys which is what the straight girls like.
because you have breast now. Which in that case you should be getting attention from young horny boys or lesbians.