Have sex with her!
Give him a blow-job and do things you normally wouldn't do,like caress and even use toys for you and him but mostly just blow him,look on porn websites and sex advice websites for ideas.
I'm guessing you are asking how to improve you sex life with your hubby. There are all kinds of things you can do from role playing to introducing sex toys.
Its very natural to feel like that. If you don't like this habit, you should try to be more participating in his endeavors. Probably, your disinterest compels him to indulge in these tactics. I suggest you should revive your interest to avert such instances.
Yes, a wife can refuse sex to her husband. If the husband were to force his wife to have sex it is rape.
Sex and adult toys
There are many fruits and vagetables which are seen like penis like a bringle is a good toys for making sex you put a condum on it and enjoy real sex
sex toys ;)
Things used for sexual pleasure, like dildos, strap-ons, vibrators, etc.
No.
Communication!!!
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