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You should not try to "change" your boyfriend however, if there is something about his behaviour that concerns you, you should discuss it with him. You have to remember it takes two and I'm sure there are things that you could alter in his eyes as well. That is what it means to grow together. It is important to remember that constructive criticism is good and there is always room for improvement - for both of you!! You can't change anybody. Only people can change themselves. The best thing you could do is support your boyfriend and encourage him in his faults and try to help him through whatever he needs to change. You might also try to talk to some of his friends and ask them if they think he needs to change. You might try to get some of them to help you talk to him about it.
good luck!
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With anyone in a relationship, compromises make it possible. You would need to decide if the problem is one that you can live with or not. If the issue is verbal abuse, addiction or something else as sinister, then you need to break up with him. Certainly, you should not change your values in order to stay with him. But if it is more like a quirk, take a second look.
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