Why does he still want you if you're not good in bed?

Answer 1

There is more to love than just sex. Yes, there is more to love than just sex. But most people, especially men, don't realize that sex actually begins out side the bedroom, with the way in which you treat each other. You have to treat each other with respect, consideration, compassion, affection, and be truly interested in who they are, their personality, likes and dislikes, etc., and accept them for who they are. As for "not good in bed", that is subjective. Is it you who feels you aren't good in bed, or did he say that to you? Are there certain things he wants, or needs that he has, that he feels you aren't satisfying? If so, ask him what they are, and try to do what you can, but without compromising your self respect. If it's something you don't feel is "right", then discuss it with him, and try to reach a compromise. Is there something he doesn't do for you that would help you "be good in bed"? If so, then you have to tell him. He cannot read your mind, so you can't expect him to know if you don't tell him. When you love each other, communication, respect and consideration for the other's pleasure are the most important things in a good sex life.