Best Answer

Well from my own experience, it could be a couple of different things ranging from a physical problem to mental anxiety. Generally feeling sick before sex is not normal, but that doesn't mean its likely to be serious. If you're reading this post for a partners problem, you should keep in mind that likely you are not to blame for his or her problem, so you should not feel insulted. Yet nor should you condemn him or her, because from personal experience it can feel embarrassing and even upsetting. For those of you who have the problem, continue reading for some of my possible explanations.

If it's a severe stomach ache that makes you want to literally almost throw up, then it could be your body reacting to stress and anxiety. Your body can react in many different ways under stress, and one of those ways is to become nauseous. One way you can get overly stressed is to be anxious with excitement over the prospect of sex(like how I get), and you start to get sick, even in the middle of foreplay or if you have just begun. If this keeps happening, it means you've developed something called a conditioned response where you subconsciously associate sex with nausea. You can get rid of it by learning to relax yourself beforehand through a variety of methods, by not eating too much prior to sexual activity, or by consulting a doctor and receiving medication to reduce anxiety or nausea. These will cause you, after some attempts, to not subconsciously associate sex with sickness/vomiting, and instead with the feeling of being relaxed and happy.

Another possible way you could be getting overly stressed is that yours anxious about having sex with your partner because of your partner, not just having sex itself. If this is so, you should probably consider whether or not you feel you or your partner is ready for this commitment as well as discuss this with your partner. When you feel confident that having sex is the right choice, your stress will drop tremendously.

If your sickness drives from another factor other than pure nausea, then (likely) your situation is more physical then mental, like if you develop pain in your genitals or lower abdomen. Keep in mind that some people can get nauseated from pain itself, so if there is nausea AND pain, it's probably a physical problem.

For women sometimes the first ever act of sex or the first act of sex after a long time without sex can be painful. After the first time it should be easier, especially if you wait a little; however, like in any case where pain persists, you should see a doctor if it doesn't go away after the first few times. Again, waiting after the first time can be important so you don't inflame anything before it can heal completely, if that is the real problem.

For men, sometimes being overly stimulated or aroused can be somewhat painful(like me sometimes) like how it would be if you imagined a man taking more than the recommended dose of Viagra. If this kind of pain persists for an extended amount of time, you should consult a doctor. Don't forget that this pain can cause some sick feelings.

For both men and women, any cuts or injures should be allowed to heal before sex for each's sake, because blood is an effective conduit for STDs or other diseases. And again, if any pain or sickness stays for an extended amount of time, you should go to a doctor.

If your issues do not seem to be covered by this post, then I would recommend discussing it with others and/or see a doctor. A doctor will be able to give you a much more informed opinion specially catered to your personal problems. Hopefully this has been helpful!

User Avatar

Wiki User

11y ago
This answer is:
User Avatar
More answers
User Avatar

Wiki User

9y ago

If you are experiencing pain during sexual intercourse, it is best if you seek the advice of a physician. Only he/she could diagnose this or say if it is an indicator of a more severe problem.

This answer is:
User Avatar

User Avatar

Wiki User

11y ago

This is not usual to feel sick during sex. Try some different position next time.

This answer is:
User Avatar

Add your answer:

Earn +20 pts
Q: Why do you feel sick before sex?
Write your answer...
Still have questions?
magnify glass
Related questions

If you have car sick do you feel the same when you have airsick?

Yes. Also you feel the same when you have sea-sick. You can take a medicine before you must fly so you will not feel sick.

How do you feel after sex?

you feel sick happy sexy xoxoxoxoxoxoxo and it makes u feel like u want to have sex again you feel incredible and you want to do it again and again and u feel sexy cause your naked and hot and good

Why do you feel so sick before your period?

the reason you feel so sick before your period is because all you women are a bunch of sally bitches. Not only was that last answer sexist but it didn't answer your question.

What fore play before sex have to be done to fire up a women in to sex?

This is a sick question, why do you even ask something like that?

If you feel sick while eatting dose that mean you can be pregnant?

Only if you have had unprotected sex. Could be a flu bug.

Had unprotected sex well your stomach is hurting at the bottom and you feel sick when you eat and this was also your first time what does this means?

You are pregnant!

Why do i feel sick right after unprotected sex?

Most likely nothing medically relevant. Probably just nervousness, or guilt.

Should you tell your parents if you feel sick before your about to go on a trip?

Yeah you probably should if you fell sick you need to tell them.

Used to be able to drink like a champion but now i feel sick to my stomach after just a few shots i feel sick way before i get drunk.... what gives?

You should consult your physician.

I feel a fluttering in my stomach and I feel real nasaues well sick to my stomach however you spell that and I had sex 11 days ago could I be pregnant?

Yes, you may be.

Is it okay to feel sick after sex?

Yes. Most of the time it is from the all the being pushed inside you. It can make you have a stomach ache or feel like you need to throw up.

Is sick a mood?

Sick is a mood because when you say you feel sick that is a mood you are feeling.Such as i feel sick