Why do people make promises they can't keep?

Answer 1

Because this world is heading for certain disaster, in no uncertain terms.. people find it very easy to lie to people the care about.. I believe that those people wish to be something more than they actually are. I destroyed my girlfriend for nearly 2 years.. because I found it very easy to lie to her.. because I wanted what I wanted and that was my regular friends to hang out with, also because of my addiction. I made her feel horrible because I felt like a God because women wanted to be around me because I had drugs on me at all times, what I thought could have been something better than what I had with my girlfriend ATM.. I was a tornado, an F5 RIPPING THROUGH THROUGH HER LIFE. But I'll tell you what I really was a POS low life scumb bag !!! BECAUSE a couple of dumb using women.. got me twisted and said the most horrible things about my girlfriend who I had been lying to for nearly a year of our relationship.

Now having said all of that. I have come clean of all of my sins towards her. I just got out of rehab for dual diagnosis.. yes I'm an addict with mental illness's. This life I live now is full of paranoia and untrust because of what I did to her I was wrong for not letting her go. Or giving her the option of deciding what she wanted to do. WELP I finally have proof that she in facts lies to me.. because of a simple receipt. She forgot to throw away. Yesterday morning now I have all the more reason to be paranoid.. what else has she lied to me about. She had claimed just last night she has never lied to me about anything. What the he//l do I do now... I love her more than I have ever loved anyone else... My heart hurts.. my head knew this would happen eventually.. nearly 1.5 years after our relationship began I finally caught her.. now what do I believe.. when she tells me what she does. How many more lies has she told me. How much more pain do I and her need to put each other through.. before one of us is Dead?

My heart sings a sorrowfully painful song this morning. My problem is she was to be where I was at 8am about 45 miles away but she lied and she got behind a traffic accident. She could have just told me the truth and said she was running behind. Would that have made me paranoid more.. not at all.. because she doesn't do mornings very well.. I would have been fine with the truth... See everyone lies

Answer 2

It's sometimes hard to keep a promise because you maybe have never really know how to keep a promise or never really kept a promise really. But if you actually keep something a promise it will get easier. Start with promise yourself not to do something then whenever you get tempted to do it, remind yourself how long it been or remind that it not worth it.

If you promise someone you love or like or even a family you should always keep that promise even if they are in or out of your life. soon enough you will realize that keep a promise is not as hard as you think and you can be able to do things way easier.

Answer 3

Because we're all human. No matter what, we're all human, and humans make mistakes, break promises, lie, and many other things.