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If you really care about this girl whom your are going to "deflower", probably the nicest and sweetest manner would be to allow her to get on top and do the deed. Lie on your back and have her straddle you and your erection, this gives her the ability to control the rate and depth of penetration. The VERY first time for a girl is often painful, but not too terribly much, and the pain does not last long. Help her by holding your penis up as she guides herself into position. Once she is in position, let her hold the penis and be gentle with her, do not thrust up into her with your hips, as this may be construed as a violation of trust and selfishness on your part, not what you want from her if you intend to continue with the relationship. Also, I strongly advise you to consider using a water based lubrication such as KY or Ultraglide as this will help minimize any discomfort on her part. Don't forget to talk to her, tell her how beautiful she looks, how nice she smells, and how she feels to you, as well as how you feel towards her emotionally, this can help out a great deal in aiding her get past any doubts and insecurities, as well as earn you more pleasures to be had later.

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15y ago

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