When you and a ex of long time three years break up and you want to get back together is it the best thing to cut off ties no phone no text for a while and then start a new?

Answer 1

D'you know what? Did you ever ask yourself whether the reason for your break-up is still valid? Did you ever consider that the cause for your divorce has not been resolved? Yes, I agree, it is best to cut off phone and text, but for a different reason than you would assume. You need to get together, face to face - never forget that facial expressions mean something - and discuss the problems that caused your break-up in the first place. Take her out to dinner - a public place dampens tempers - and discuss why you broke up in the first place. Resolve that major problem and other problems before you attempt a reconciliation. This might result in several dinners. There is much more help, including book recommendations on Kpopp's bio page.