When he looks at other women why does it hurt you so bad?

Answer 1

In my opinion, it's because hes not really in love as he thinks he is. I can not understand a man that claims to love a woman and still has the desire to look at others. If his mind is wondering as well as his eyes, it's because he has settled with whatever woman he can get. When I hear people say that at least he's just looking and not pursuing, well REALITY is that most of the women they look at wouldn't give them the time of day unless he's gorgeous, rich and is willing to spend lots of money.

I don't buy the theory that it's just wired. That's BS. They look at what they wish they could have had. Simple as that. Eventually after looking at other women, their so called weak love dies for you.