This is a toughy. The best answer is to contact a couples counselor to help you talk about this.
Most of us were taught from an early age that we weren't supposed to talk about sex. In fact, the only words most of us have for talking about sex are obscenities or medical terminology. What they don't tell you is that it is not only all right to talk to your spouse about sex, it's actually necessary. This is where a couples counselor comes in. Good luck!
If you and your husband are not having sex very often and you start using a sex toy and he doesn't like it then just tell him you want to have sex more often ad stop using the toy!
Yes, a wife can refuse sex to her husband. If the husband were to force his wife to have sex it is rape.
No.
Communication!!!
Absolutely not. The wife is not required to have sex with her husband. It is not required by law or anything like that.
Certainly ... there is NO law that states she must have sex with her husband. Think!!
ask your husband if you and him want to have sex.
My husband can not be my girlfriend. Because I can not do sex with him in return.
You need a WHY did he feel that way before even trying to answer this one.
They have sex!
sex
Stick to your husband only. Anything else would be adultry. Don't worry about adultry. It's all ok as long as your husband is ok with it. If you feel slightly bisexual then you need to experiment with another woman such as a situation like that. Just have sex with her like you would your husband but make sure to have sex with your husband too. Watch a 3-some porno and get some ideas.