Tricky situation. Don't mess with a relationship that's all ready happening. Be respectful. Otherwise you'll have a lot of drama on your hands. You wouldn't want someone to do that with you, right? Just talk to him, and say with both have these feelings. Should we be together or not, because if so, then you need to talk to your girlfriend first. That relationship has to end first before you can even consider being with him. If you break it up on purpose...that's just low.
"sorry, i like someone else" sincerely.
guys arent worth it, let him be.
You cannot be with either person until you sort your feelings out as you cannot be in a relationship while having feelings for someone else. Yes, as i found out when i was younger, when you like someone else your feelings for them rule over your feelings for the person that you are actually going out with and they can see that so when the bomb finally drops your bf/gf will be hurt much more than if you had dumped them nicely before.
This is precisely the situation I have found myself in today, and I have come to the conclusion that although it hurts, I cannot stop my boyfriend from having feelings for someone else. But he also has feelings for me, and these are the feelings which count.
First ask yourself, If he was flirting with someone else would I like it? Most guys that have feelings for you will not like you flirting with someone else.
Ask him, if he does - get over it. Only one life.
well become friends with him after he's gotten over the break-up ask him out or her
First of all it should not ever matter what your friends think - if you like someone that is your business and none of theirs. And secondly, if you are with someone but have feelings for someone else you should not be dating anyone until you take some time to sort out your feelings. You cannot be in a relationship if you harbour feelings for someone else and expect it to work out.
Try talking to them about your feelings for someone else and look out for their reaction 9/10 is obvious that the person likes you or not.
get a life and find someone else to look at
No, it is not really bad to have a boyfriend but to like someone else. If you think that you like the other person more, it may be time to take a break from the boyfriend until your feelings are sorted out.
Nothing! That someone if wants to share his feelings about the one he/she likes, would surely tell you something about him or her, but if that someone wants to maintain the privacy level, he/she will not reveal anything to you. Simple!