What should you do if your best friend is a girl and her boyfriend keeps getting mad at you because he thinks you like her even though you really don't?

Answer 1

The Names:

For me to explain this better, I need to give all of you fake names. Let's call your best friend "Cali". Let's call you "Lauren". And, let's call your best friend's boyfriend "Jason".

The Obvious:

First, make sure that Jason absouetly likes you. If you make a move without making sure, Cali might think that you are trying to steal Jason, without him even liking you. Try talking to Jason, say, "Hey, Jason, I know this is kind of a personal question, but do you like me?" and wait to see what he says. Remember to not tell Cali right away, it might hurt her feelings. Keep it a secret from her until you talk to Jason.

If You Tell Cali

You and Jason have to figure this out together. Otherwise, if you tell Cali before you talk to Jason at all about this, it might end up like this:

• "Lauren, Jason obviously likes me. We are together. He's my boyfriend, you can't say that he likes you."
• "But, Cali, I'm serious, he might like me."
• "Whatever, boyfriend stealer."

With that being said, Cali might not want to be your friend. The best thing that could happen would be:

• "Really? I'm so happy for you! Let's talk to Jason!"
• "Really? Thanks, Cali. You are going about this great!"

Although, that probably will not happen. You have about a 2% chance that she will say that. Because, really, all girls would be upset about that kind of stuff. You probably would too. This is most likely what would happen:

• "Cali, I think Jason likes me."
• "What?"
• "I think Jason likes me."
• "Wait, why?"
• "Well, I think so because _____________________."
• "But he's supposed to love me, he's MY boyfriend. Not yours."
• "I know, Cali, I'm sorry."
• "I'm gonna talk to Jason."
• "Alright, Cali. I'm sorry I brought it up."

Talking To Jason

You want to talk to Jason first, then he will know what is going on when Cali freaks out (if she does). When you talk to Jason, bring up the subject lightly, and just ask him. Here's how I would ask him:

• "Jason, this is really personal. It might embarrass you, it kinda embarrasses me as well. But, I think you love me. Do you? I didn't want to tell Cali because otherwise she might get mad."

Jason's Responses/MeaningsPartical Rejection

• "No, Lauren, I like Cali. We are together, you know that, right?"
• Say: "Are you sure?"
• "I'm sure. I like Cali."

If he said something like that, he might like you. But, if he seems to get really frustrated, he might be hiding something, encourage him to be honest with you.

He Likes You

• "Um, no."

• Say: "Are you sure, Jason?"

• "Maybe."

If he say something like that, he probably most likely does like you. If he says the first line with a blush, or a sign of embarrassement, he SO likes you. You have to tell him that you are alright with that, and just discuss it.

No Way

• "No, my heart belongs to Cali."
• Say: "Are you sure, Jason?"
• "Yeah, I'm sorry, Lauren. Cali is my girlfriend."

He most likely doesn't like you. If he says the line, "Cali is my girlfriend." or something that shows that he is pledged to Cali, then he most likely doesn't like you." Check his emotions as well.

Reading His EmotionsBlushing/Putting His Hands Behind His Back:If he blushes and/or puts his hands behind his back, then he obviously likes you. This is a sign of his body trying to hide something from you. If this happens, try to encourage him to say it aloud, and tell him it's alright. Tell him it's alright, so he will feel comforted. Putting His Head Down/Grinning:This is another sign that he likes you. This could also mean that he doesn't want to talk about the subject at all, which means it is a great factor that he likes you. Getting Angry:If his facial expressions start to show being angry, then he is getting annoyed with you, most likely. He is upset, or he is embarrassed. If he is embarrassed, he will most likely say something like, "NO WAY!" or if he is upset, he might say, "How dare you think that I love you. Cali is my girlfriend, I would never do that to her." Straight Face:Whatever he says with a straight face is most likely the true. Or, if he says that he doesn't like you with a staight face, he might be trying to trick you into thinking that he doesn't like you because he has a straight face. If he does like you with a straight face, he might have problems with having a straight face, trying to trick you. If He Doesn't Like YouIf he doesn't like you, make a pack with Jason not to tell Cali because otherwise she might get upset with you or Jason and break up with Jason, or not be your friend anymore. If He Likes YouIf he likes you, you obviously have to tell Cali. Because, if you don't, Jason and Cali will just have a useless relationship. Jason will love you the whole time, and not her. Also, if Jason does like you, show him this page for his lines. Telling HerSince you have to tell Cali, invite her over for a movie night at Jason's house or something. Before you do this, a couple days after the talk, make sure that you and Jason look like pretty good friends. So, then, before you start the movie, you start it off. This is how it should/might look like:

• You: "Cali, we have something to tell you."
• Cali: "Yeah?"
• Jason: "I know this is hard for you to hear, Cali."
• Cali: "What?!?"
• Jason: "I like Lauren."

When Jason says "I like Lauren." There are two ways this might go. If it goes completely other ways, just try to play it by hear, and rotate speaking of you and Jason. Here they are:

Way 1:

• Cali: "Really? I'm so happy for you guys." (She might start crying)
• Jason: "I'm sorry, Cali."
• Cali: "No, it's fine."
• You: "It's my falut, I asked Jason if he liked me."
• Cali: "Oh, really?"
• You: "I thought he liked me because ____________________."
• Cali: "That's fine."
• Jason: "I'm really sorry, Cali. I just like Lauren."
• Cali: "So, we're over?"
• Jason: "Like I said, I'm sorry."

Now, depending on how pasionate Cali is about Jason, this could go three ways. Here are three ways:

Way 1:

• Cali: (Might start crying more) "I can't believe you would do this to me."

Way 2:

• "Alright, I'll miss having a boyfriend. That's fine, enjoy Lauren." (She might pout)

Way 3:

• (Might leave) "Fine, have fun kissing HER. Cheater."

If Way 1 happens, then Jason has to kind of comfort her, say kind words and give her a little hug.

If Way 2 happens, then Jason, again, comfort her and say sorry.

If Way 3 happens, Lauren has to kind of go after her and say, "Cali! Come back!" And, if she continues to leave, talk to Jason again.

Way 2:

• Cali: "What? You don't like me?" (She might start crying)
• Jason: "I'm sorry, Cali."
• Lauren: "Yeah."
• Cali: "Whatever. You guys must hate me."
• Jason: "We don't hate you. I just, I love Lauren."

Now, when Jason says "We don't hate you. I just, I love Lauren." her heart is going to be snapped into bits. Her heart is going to burst. This, again, might go two ways. Here they are:

Way 1: Cali: "Love Lauren? Oh please."

Way 2: Cali: "How could you?"

Way 3: Cali: (She might leave) "Whatever."

If Way 1 happens, then that is really rude to you. You should say, "What? Cali, I thought we were friends."

If Way 2 happens, Jason should say, "I'm sorry. It's love. I can't force myself to love you."

If Way 3 happens, chase after her if she runs. You should chase her. And, you should say, "Cali! We're sorry!"

With Luck...With luck... Cali will accept it. And, if you actually like Jason back, then date him. It shouldn't matter, and plus, he loves you. Save kissing for mostly when Cali isn't around, but feel free to express your love. Remember To Show Him This!Remember to show Jason this, because, it has tips, lines, what could happen, and more. Good Luck!

Answer 2

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