Another answer: You don't say why you think this way, but if its true, PLEASE SPEAK UP. It happens all the time the time that a girlfriend befriends a husband and next thing you know they are in a relationship and the wife gets dumped. Do not be ashamed of how you feel. It may be nothing, but you will have peace of mind if you get it off your chest. Make her visits to your home few and far between. Even The Bible lets us know this is a good idea. Proverbs 25: 17 "Rarely set your foot in your neighbors house, so that he does not get tired of you and hate you."
Firstly, make sure that you are not overreacting. It is fine for your friend to talk to your husband. It could be something perfectly innocent. However, if you are positive that she is flirting, go have a long talk with her, tell her how you feel, say you're her friend and you respect her, but he's YOUR husband and that is NOT tolerable.
dump his sorry ass
I feel that this is totally unfair. I think your husband should confront his friend. After he confronts him and asks him why he didn't get payed he should give him reasons on why he should have gotten payed. After he does this he has a good chance at getting the money he deserves for doing his job.
you may have wanted to coinsider not marrying him in the first place and no get a divorce
It is ok for the female to be friends with the husbands friend. But I think that talking to the friend without the husband present is wrong it seems a little weird.
Ask yourself if you are willing to lose your husband. If there are kids involved, think harder because you will be breaking yours and his family. I think that you need to figure out what attracts you to this friend, and maybe your husband can do it. If you are truly unhappy, and he is too. Get a divorce, but that should be your last option.
It could mean nothing, just looking at eachother. It could mean, they are attracted to eachother. Or it could just mean that they are dazing off.
Is He Really Attracted? So you think that your husband is attracted to your friend? And you wonder whether this attraction can grow into a threat to your own relationship? On top of it, without you realizng it, your behavior towards your husband might have changed already? Did you ever consider asking him? This can be done with an easy questiion or statement. "You really like "So and so?" What is so difficult about this? I can tell you this: you are suspicious and you do not want to voice your suspicion. So you do not ask. This could be the beginning of the beaking up of your relationship. Isn't easier to ask in an inoffensive way than to let the matter stew in your head? Read more about relationships in the book recommendation #2 and #6 on my BIo Page.
well you should talk to your husband and ask him to ask his friend to move out cuz you dont feel comfortable having sex with him when he is in the house works every time think of all the good time you have had with your husband and why you married him and not the friend.and grow up ,do not hurt your family and friend over a crash.thick about it hard
Yes. He was the friend of her boy friend. He was also I think the best man.
if u think that your husband is gay all u have 2 do is just ask him.
As long as you are still attracted to guys - and it sounds like you are - then you're not a lesbian. Being a lesbian means only being attracted to girls. If you're attracted to guys, you can only be straight or bisexual. If you are attracted to guys, and are also attracted to your friend, that would make you bisexual. As far as what you should do about being in love with her goes, if it's really love, there's no way around it. But it seems like you like guys and thought you were straight, so you can dismiss the worry of being a lesbian.
Maybe he just sees you as a friend. He might not be attracted to you or is attracted to someone else. If he depends on you for advice, that is a kind of relationship. Is that it, or does he go out with you? Has he ever asked you out? Does he look deeply into your eyes? Does he seem attracted to you? Are you attracted to him? Do you think that there is compatability or potential for a relationship?