politely accept there refusal
Not use them as a reference. Look at it this way: they've told you they don't want to be a reference. If you use them anyway, what sort of reference do you think they're going to give?
MISERLY
he might have a crush on her or loves her after all someone who loves another person are reluctant to leave that person
A person writing a reference letter is someone that is recommending you for a job. If this person is a professional, such as a former boss, or teacher they should already know how to do a proper reference letter. If it is a casual reference, you can get free templates from Microsoft Office.
What do you mean by the youngest person in the Bible? If you are talking about the first human the Bible talks about, than it is Adam, the first man. The Bible reference should be at the back.
A cajoler is a person who cajoles - who persuades someone to do something they're reluctant to do.
A begrudger is a person who begrudges - who is reluctant about something or who gives something reluctantly.
A person who provides a reference is often referred to as a referee.
You should first write down how long you have know the person. You should also write down good things about the person.
The homonym of reluctant is "willing".
Only after the person has agree'd to be your reference.