Well, some guys (jerks) find them... scary (that's the only word I can think of...). They are scared of the idea of commiting to not only the lady, but also the child and being seen as a father figure. The idea of this much commitment scares them half to death. Some men (the good ones) would love to be like a dad. They'd treat the child like their own. And love the mother with all their heart. I know you don't like this but... men cannot be generalized. Each one is different. Hope this helps... -ramennoodles89
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