What are the signs that he wants to talk to you?

Answer 1

My advice is that you don't wait for him to give you any signs. Just go and talk to him if you want to. If he doesn't respond well, then you will know after talking to him and you won't have to waste your time any more. If he responds well, then you can start to pursue a relationship (not moving too fast of course!). Don't let a fear of rejection paralyze you. No matter how he responds, wouldn't it be better to know how he feels than to spend any more time fretting over a guy who might be a jerk? Not one person is worth the stress and worry. Besides, if it turns out that he's not interested in you, then there is little to be done about it and he may not change his mind. Don't let yourself get upset if he doesn't turn out to be interested. There are millions of guys out there. Don't waste too much time on one when a better one is right around the corner.

If I misunderstood your question and you are already talking to him and want to know if he wants to keep on talking to you, then you shouldn't fret about that too much either. Guys tend to be a lot simpler than women when it comes to communication. Most guys will probably make it pretty obvious if they have no desire to keep talking to you. They might keep trying to end the conversation or they might constantly sigh and look more interested in other things. Also, if they have no interest in talking to you, then when the current conversation is completed they will simply make no effort to talk to you again or may even avoid talking with you. If you worry too much about whether or not he likes you, then you will put off an awkward vibe and end up repelling him or making him feel awkward, which can quickly kill any conversation.

Just relax and enjoy the conversation, if you're having fun and keeping it easy, chances are that he will too. If you've already spoken with the guy, then see if he shows interest in talking with you again. If not, then move on and forget about it. I promise that you will find a guy who wants you just as much or more than you want him if you keep trying and the situation will be infinitely better than pursuing someone who doesn't.

Also, don't give up! This is why I say not to worry about one guy too much. You will definitely go through a large number of "duds" before you find your prince charming. If you let every situation upset you or be too important, then you will cripple yourself long before you find "the one." Just pretend that it's a game! You win some, you lose some, but if you don't keep playing and honing your skills then you will never make it to the winners circle.

If this dynamic of dating is too much for you, then maybe you could consider online matchmaking. Then you know you share some interests already and can have an idea of what the person is like, therefor giving you a "better chance" of success. Hope that helps!