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Just because your dating someone doesnt meen you have to stop hanging out with guys. Its your choice. If he trully liked you, you bf wouldn't dump you because you hang out with other guys. You hung out with other guys before you dated him and you can still hang out with guys when your dating him. You can do what ever you want to. So of course you can still hang out with other guys. I had a bf and I hung out with a bunch of guys because they were my friends and no boy was going to tell me who I could and couldn't hang out with.
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 8y agoYes. You cannot control who her friends are, just like she should not say if you can have female friends. Doing something like that is going to cause problems. If you don't trust her or feel jealous, then you need to re-evaluate yourself and your relationship.
Keep in mind that as someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, you are not their parent. In a mature and healthy relationship, you do not allow or not allow. You talk with (not at) your other half and come to mutual understandings. You communicate and try to respect each others feelings and wishes. You give trust until you are given a reason not to.
On a personal note: As a female, my best friend since childhood was a male. My high school sweetheart knew that my best friend and my were a package deal from early on. He trusted me and was okay with that. We got married a few years after high school, and my best friend was at the wedding. Now, after 17 years of marriage, I still have the same best friend. He and my husband are very close, and he is like an uncle to our children. If he had tried to cut an important person out of my life, not only would it have probably created some bitterness, he would have lost a future good friend himself. Maybe try embracing her friends, and it very well could make your relationship with her all the better.
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∙ 15y agoNO!
if she disagrees, ask her if she would be okay with you going to dinner with an ex.
that is not okay at all.
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What do you do for you dont like the fact that your girlfriend has too many male friends?
well you should confront her about it. and if insists that all of them are just friends. then you should get use to it. because having many male friends should not threaten you if you truly love her.
Your girlfriend seems to be intimate with one of her male friends and often hugs him but she swears that they are just friends should you be worried?
He might be gay. Try and chat him up to see.
What to do when your girlfriend keeps talking on phone with her male friends if cannot stand it?
Perhaps you should stop being so possessive and let her have her friends. If she says they're only friends, have some trust. Would you be acting this way if they were girls?
How do you get a friends with benefits relationship with a male?
You ask him. It should be about that easy, if he is a straight male.
How do you impose yourself as girls best male friend not boyfriend?
say were aquantances. it means friends. not girlfriend friend :)
What should you get your 20 some male step cousin that you barely know?
A Girlfriend
If your boyfriend is hanging out with another girl is this cheating?
* Guys can have female friends, but, when going steady with a girlfriend it isn't the wise to hang out too much with his friend. He should ask you on occasion if he could bring her along with the two of you so you could meet her. I have several male friends (even when they were single and are now married with children of their own) and we're still friends. I have introduced my male friends to my husband and we often get together in couples only! If I should bump into my male friend in a Mall for instance and he suggests coffee then there is nothing wrong with going for a quick coffee with them.
Your girlfriend has had a lot of male friends and denies sleeping with most of them but you are suspicious?
It all depends on trust, if she really loves you then she has no need of cheating on you with other friends. It all depends on trust, if she really loves you then she has no need of cheating on you with other friends.
Why does my girlfriend go out with a male friend without telling me?
Maybe she's worried that you will be jealous or think something is going on. Maybe she doesn't feel that she should have to tell you if she's going out with her friends - male or female. If it bothers you, you should discuss it with her and let her know that you'd appreciate a heads-up when she spends a night out with another male so you aren't caught off guard.
Why does my boyfriend prefer to be with his male friends rather than his girlfriend?
Some guys can't handle the emotional baggage women come with.
Should men have girls as friends?
Why can't a male have a friend that is a female?
What should you do if both you and your wife are in the military and your wife doesn't trust you with female friends even though she has male friends?
You should talk to her. It is hypocritical for her to have the male friends & for you not to have female friends. Ask her what she is worried about, so the fear is out and maybe she can realize why this needs needs to change. Best of luck :)
