Autophobia- Fear of being alone or of oneself.
Adaptability and flexibility means being able to adjust oneself to different conditions.
Lonely
Pride.
I couldn't find a definition for the fear of being dependent on oneself, but, to have a fear of dependence on others is Soteriophobia. If we take this to the next logical step, then, the fear of NOT being dependent on others, ergo, fear of dependence on oneself could be Antisoteriophobia
Eremophobia- Fear of being oneself or of lonliness.
Being oneself...
The state or quality of being mature; ripeness; full development; as, the maturity of corn or of grass; maturity of judgment; the maturity of a plan., Arrival of the time fixed for payment; a becoming due; termination of the period a note, etc., has to run.
The word for not being able to explain oneself is "inarticulate" or "incoherent."
A minor under the age of 18 can be emancipated upon a showing of maturity and financial independence. Once emancipated, the minor no longer has a right to receive financial support from his or her parents.
Unfortunately, maturity cannot be forced.
Trueaneiagetics. I think i spelt it wrong though.