So I asked this question and have more details that I'd really love advice on...
Last night I sent my boyfriend an email about how pissed off I was about something completely unrelated we were arguing about... but it was way too dramatic and over the top and as soon as I hit send I was like bad idea. And I started to flip out... and I knew the password to his facebook (which he told me he changed and i donno if he did or not 'cause i would NEVER log in without him knowing!) so I decied to do something really really really really really really bad and see if it was the same thing for his gmail acount... I should NOT have done that, but I really wanted to just get the email back and delete it (which I did)... And I feel horrible that I did and could have just kept it to myself, but couldn't lie to him about it, so I told him.... but... here's the thing... I accidently clicked on sent mail by accident 'cause my mouse on my laptop is slightly broken and sometimes just scrolling over a link it likes to click it. So it opens sent mail and i see some subject lines that look ummm sketchy.... There were things like "cock" and "cock for you." In these emails were pictures of him that were being sent to girls. So when telling him I was horrible and went into his email I also told him what I saw. He started giving me this whole thing about how he was kind of fishing for compliments from people because he has really bad self-confidence (which you would never know unless he told you!) He also told me that it happened when we were fighting. He said something like "you were mad and didn't want to see it, but someone else did." I was outraged by all of this, still am... We got into a huge fight and by the end at least he felt awful and was crying. And now I don't know what to do... What I did that ended up with me finding out was horrible. But the way I see it, what he did was even worse. He said he's stopped. The last time was about a month ago. However, it was about a week before I went up to visit him (we go to school together and are home for the summer)... which was a week before I lost my virginity to him... I feel like I don't trust him as much anymore... but maybe I'm over reacting. Maybe I'm just blowing this whole thing out of proportion... Is it really that big a deal that he exchanged pictures with girls? I mean, at least he said it was a confidence thing, it wasn't just him being a pig... I am so opposed to cheating. For me, if a guy cheats, it's over. But is this cheating? Is this really as bad as I feel like it is right now, or is it all just too knew for me to not be too emotional?
Thanks for any input! I really appreciate it!
Yes it is considered cheating, because why are you sending those type of photo's to another boy when you already have a boyfriend, it'll be different if you were single and casually talking to him. Also because how would you feel if your boyfriend sent those type of pictures to another girl.newtest3newtest3
He is Probaly cheating on u xx sorry xx
i would talk to your boyfriend first but if you leave your boyfriend and he got right together with her then he probably was cheating
If any boyfriend says he wants to meet other girls and has pictures of other girls and asking them to meet him whether on his phone or on Internet this is considered cheating. He is being dishonest with you and you would be wise to kick him out of your life because you can do much better.
i havent heard of such but maybe you can try the song " you don't love me anymore"
I believe it is.
you get a new boyfriend
This could be considered cheating by some and by others no. To cheat means to have an another relationship while being considered being in a relationship.
Yes it is! If she wants other guys to use her as their fantasy, it is definitely cheating.
There can be problems between you and your friend because you don't accept him and this could lead to your friendship ending. Try to get along with him for her. If he is abusing her or cheating on her, you need all the proof (pictures and videos) that you can get to show her that he is not worth it.
stop cheating figure it out by yourself