I am in fifth grade and I have the worlds biggest crush on the girl who sits next to me I have great grades so I don't need to focus on school plus I hhave had a crush on her since third grade Help?

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Well, still focus on your grades because you might just lose everything. Talk to her every day-- just small talk...Don't try to "make a move" or anything. If you've known her (shes talked to you, you've talked to her) then just strike a conversation. DO NOT TRY TO BE SOMEONE YOUR NOT! That makes any relationship WORSE! How do I know this? Because I am a girl. I know when somebody is desperate. Ok back to topic! If she invites you to something only go if you WANT TO! Just because she's going doesn't mean its automatically fun. ________________ ... listen dude. This question brings back some of my best and worst memories. Listen up. When I was in third grade, a new boy came to my class. I didn't like him very much at first. He sat next to me and we would talk sometimes. Fourth grade: I had a full-blown crush on him. I freaked out every time he came near me. Unfortunately, the girls in my class took advantage of my weakness... They made fun of me openly when he was around. School ended with a sour note. Fifth grade, the last part of my story. It started out like the last year ended. On my birthday, I found a bunch of white roses on my doorstep. Attached was a birthday card from him. It was so sweet... but unfortunately, that summer he moved to the other side of the country and I haven't seen him since. So here's my advice- don't go too fast, but don't take forever either. Who knows how long you have left...