best way is to refuse to be apart of it. And the best way to do that is to say in a calm and rational manner try to remove emotion "i'm not going to argue, we should talk later when we're calm" or suggest to write it down if its too difficult to talk about without it resulting in an argument. Just as there anger can make you angry so can your calm make them calm you just have to be persistant. Always try to stay calm, you dont have to agree with them just try to sound reassuring, nothing that can highten the situation, always express that you understand, pause to show your listening (even if they're not) eventually they'll come around. If its because they are just angry about something else they dont feel they can talk about and have picked an argument because they need one, its best to say the same as above and to suggest that they go out for a run or walk to release their pent up energy, and then reapproach the real issue. If they just cant calm down regardless just dont say anything just physically remove yourself from the situation and let them rant to themselves. Once they've got it off their chest they should be calm enough to talk it out instead. In all cases its best to try and spot the esculation so you can stop it from becoming an argument.
Argument is putting forward a point or series of points in a logical way. In a formal sense this is the basis of debate. In formal debate argument should be SExI. S stands for state your point, Ex stands for explain your point and I stands for illustrate. Often a point can have several illustrations and may be statistical. The different points build into a compelling case as to why you are right. This is also the basis for answering any question be it spoken or written on an exam question.
There are lots of different devices that can be employed by people to win arguments. These involve being evasive, like answering a question with another question, humour, which can defuse aggression through to the more sneaky ones my girlfriend uses such as hovering in a doorway whist arguing, making her point and walking off before you can respond. Crying is also quite effective and often employed to win an argument.
Shouting louder is often one of the worst device as is starting the sentence... Your mother is so....
To prevent getting into a war of words with a person, choose to walk away from the argument. The first person to walk away is choosing not to fight or argue but to be the bigger person.
Maybe you are in love with your best friend, it's possible. You need to find why you had the argument in the first place.
The power to walk away
When riding and leading, if instead of trying to make the horse move forwards, try turning them. This means that you still win the "argument" because you have made then move. Its similar to a person always trying to pick an argument. If you try to argue back, the horse will almost always win. However, if you were to walk away from the argument, you have, in a way won the argument.
When a man calls his wife names when an argument ensues, this is lack of respect, what is next, a slap or a kick??? Do not ever put up with this bullying again, YOU walk away next time when an argument is in the works, that should give you some thought as to how often you argue and why, you may have to get some professional counselling for both of you, especially if there are children involved!
cast-walk away (possibly. im not sure though)
I Walk Away was created in 1984-01.
I guess I should've known better, to believe I'm a lucky chain, Oh. I lent my heart out forever, and finally learned each other's names. I tell myself, "this time it's different." No goodbyes, cause eyes can't bear to say it. "I'll never survive on one that's coming", If I stay, Ooh! Just Walk Away! Ooh, and don't look back. Cause if my heart breaks, It's gonna hurt so bad. You know I'm strong, but I can't take that. Before It's too late. Oh, just Walk Away! (Walk, Walk, Walk Away) Ooh, just Walk Away! (Walk, Walk, Walk) Away-aye-aye, yeah. I really wish I could blame you, but I know That it's no one's fault. No, No. No, No Cinderella with no shoe, and the prince that doesn't know he's lost. He says that her face is so familiar, and Goodbye with just the same old song. But this time I will not surrender! 'Cause I'm gone, Ooh, yeah! Just Walk Away! Ooh, and don't look back. Cause if my heart breaks, It's gonna hurt so bad. You know I'm strong, but I can't take that. Before It's too late. Oh, just Walk Away! (Walk, Walk, Walk Away) Ooh, just Walk Away! (Walk, Walk, Walk) Away-aye-aye, yeah. Ooh, I've got to let it go. Start protecting my heart and soul. Cause I don't think I'll survive a goodbye again. Not again! Just Walk Away! Ooh, and don't look back. Cause if my heart breaks, It's gonna hurt so bad. You know I'm strong, but I can't take that. Before It's too late. (Before It's Too Late!) Oh, just Walk Away! (Walk, Walk, Walk Away) Walk Away, Walk Away, yeah! (Walk, Walk, Walk Away!) Walk Away, Walk Away, All right! (Walk Away, Walk Away, Yeah, Walk Away!) Walk Away, Walk Away. (Oh, Walk, Walk, Walk Away!) Walk Away, Walk Away, Ooh.. Ooh..
Those Who Walk Away was created in 1967.
Doors locking when you walk away from them is in the future so no they would not lock when you walk away.
AMERICAN HEAD CHARGE : Walk Away Lyrics Money is hate So love me now While I'm still unimportant enough to be I will prove myself And absence a shadow I will never be what you don't deserve Cause it's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better Follow me and you'll find Your reflection is not even close to yours' anymore Images patterned on dreams on your secrets Poisoning connections as you slide away from gone Cause it's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better to walk away From you We're dirty and hungry and bitter and tired and broke and bruised and battered so happy I've been here way too long Money is hate So love me now While I'm still unimportant enough to be I will prove myself And absence a shadow I will never be what you don't deserve Cause it's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better to walk away It's better You leave a trail of tears wherever you go. One of us will hold you, the other one won't. But I could never share your love or leave it behind. Break his heart, not mine. Do you remember tender moments we shared? How could this true affection vanish into thin air? He's not worth the trouble, baby; he's just a waste of your time. Oh, break his heart, not mine. Don't you walk away, You know you're gonna miss me. Don't you walk away, walk away. You're gonna miss me, You're gonna miss my love. So don't you walk away, Don't you walk away, walk away. Don't you walk away, walk away. So I'll be waiting in the backroom, baby, when you kiss him goodbye. Oh, break his heart not mine, but... Chorus Don't you walk away, walk away. Oh don't you walk away. I know you're gonna miss my love. Don't you walk away, walk away. Don't you walk away. You're gonna miss my love. Don't you walk away, walk away.
Don't be afraid to walk away from any deal.