I would suggest--as calmly as possible--saying that there just isn't enough breathing space with you father in law living with you, and that has been rather stressful.
Suggest to your husband that you both could help your father in law look for a new residence over the next few months. It's not going to be easy, but it's the best thing you can do.
Be tactful and patient. Don't threaten to leave him unless it's really gotten to be a serious problem. He should be more loyal to his wife than to his father though.
Talk to your husband and explain why this is a problem for you, without making threats. The two of you together should approach Dad and set a date (60 to 90 days, if possible) when he will be in his own place. You need to present a united front to Dad at all times. If your husband doesn't want Dad to move, you probably need to see an impartial therapist who can help you talk out your feelings.
Talk to her about your views that you want this. She might agree upon that and leave her husband. It depends on her and it is her take on this.
tell him the problem, if he doesn not stop then leave
The best way is to tell the truth to your husband and sure he will be wise enough to understand you and appreciate that you told him the truth.
Not right at all
Before you plan this make sure that this is what you wanted to do. If you really want to leave your husband, tell him face to face, then find a lawyer that can handle your case, means divorce lawyer. If this is what you wanted..
The best thing to do is back out of the situation and let your husband handle it. Tell him you have issues with the former girlfriend, and why. The worst thing you can do is sit and sulk in silence, but you deal with your husband, not the other woman.
Just tell him dont be afraid to show it out to the world
leave it alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell him........nooooooooo sex...... of he wants that Unfortunately you probably don't want to hear this but---- "get another husband". He probably won't want to change. If you feel comfortable with it then carry-on, if not then just tell him no.
No, I do not have a husband!
You'll need to tell your husband first.
no! what is your husband doing to make you want to leave!
Yes, you could get into legal trouble if you have a baby together and do not tell your husband where you are. If your husband does not abuse you or control you or harm you in any way he does deserve to be part of your child's life so seek legal counsel and get joint custody as long as your husband is not into drugs; a gang; an alcoholic and would be considered a fit father to the child.