How do you sexually excite yourself?

Answer 1

There are a variety of methods:

Pornography. It could be a book, pictures, a movie... Anything that depicts sex will make you aroused.

Your imagination. Thinking about sex or imagining people you think are attractive having sex, this can also be stimulating.

Looking at people you find attractive. Go out and take a walk, look at people you think are attractive. Undress them in your mind.

Touching yourself: If you want to go beyond arousal and get into pleasing yourself, this is the way to go. Do this when you are alone, like in the bathroom or in your bedroom. You can also use tools such as vibrators to help.

If you are a guy, rubbing your penis will make it erect. Then again, if you're too young, you won't be able to orgasm. Orgasm will make you ejaculate, meaning white stuff will come out of your penis. If you're too young, this won't happen, but it can still feel good to touch yourself. Doing this in a shower is a good idea because it will keep you clean and also mask the noise because touching yourself might make you moan.

If you are a girl, it can be trickier. Outside and above your vagina is a thing called a clitoris, you'll see it looks like a tiny bud inside. If you touch it, it feels good, but you have to figure out the way to rub it that works right for you. Rubbing other parts can also reel good, like the folds inside. You can also use a vibrator or other objects or a jet in a hot tub or a removable shower head. Be careful what objects you put in your vagina. It's very sensitive and you want to make sure the object is clean or you could get an infection.

Whether you're a boy or girl, rubbing your nipples can also feel good. There might be other parts that feel good too, everyone is a bit different, but the main parts are your private parts and nipples. You can experiment and explore a bit when you're alone.

Answer 2

That's up to you to decide. What makes you sexually excited? Only you can know that. When you get excited, what is it you have been doing? Try it again and see if it works again.