IF HE IS HONEST, you can't. How could you if he doesn't know himself? You'll have to wait and see.
If he's lying, then he doesn't, and it's an excuse for something else. Do you have reason to doubt his word?
Give him the time that he is asking for. Don't act overly anxious for his answer either. Absence makes the heart grow fonder - and if you take that time to do your own thinking, you might feel more secure in his love for you or you you may feel more independent and realize that if he doesn't love you, then you don't need him. If you love someone then you should let them go (let him go think about it), if he returns to you (ON HIS OWN - without any prodding or prompting or nagging from you) then he was yours all along, if he doesn't, then it was never meant to be.
Everyone needs some time alone. If he really loves you, he'll be back. Do your best to trust him.
I am married pretty happily and I still believe that at some point I will need to be on my own for a while to come to my senses, if you will. Being in a relationship, especially if you have spent most of your social time with your partner, can be very constricting. I do not want to sleep with other men; I simply want some time to be alone with myself and to make decisions for myself on my own schedule. It is also difficult to be in a very intimate, albeit loving, relationship if you haven't properly been on your own beforehand. Before I met my husband, I had never lived by myself and I hadn't really grown into myself yet...Now, a few years older and wiser, I realize I should probably take some time for myself. And even if I come to the conclusion that I like being alone, I still love my husband dearly and nothing could ever change what he has meant to me. If you have made a strong emotional bond with this person, that bond will always be there and it will always be special--but people change and our paths sometimes diverge. It is best, if you must end a relationship, to end it on loving terms.
Having them want some time apart may simply be their way of regrouping to regain their own identity. In some cases it is simply that the two of you are so intertwined that they don't feel they are a person aside from who they are with you. It is not bad to have distance and I would suggest you take the time to examine how you feel too. There is a balance to relationships that needs to be nurtured. It is good to share lives as long as the two of you have a life apart as well. Friends that you don't share, places you go without them and so fourth. Be careful though. If you feel there is more to their "needing time" than just time trust in your gut feeling. Many times it is a sign of infidelity.
I had this years ago and it was purely because while I adored my girlfriend, the commitment thing and deciding about my entire life was very scary and after my parents divorced I did not want to fail. the big thing about a man is he does not want to fail - just think about when a man is lost - he won't ask for directions, he'll struggle along to succeed, because asking is failing. With all problems, men are thinkers and women are talkers. Men sit down and think and think (remote control juggling) whilst women call a friend - so by having space he may be actually complimenting you by giving it all serious consideration. He could just play you along and not be serious then disappear one day but this guy want to sit on a rock with a clear head and think out all the pros and cons. Don't worry, leave him well alone and he'll be in touch. The BIG mistake women make is interrupting the thought process by feeling insulted then turn it into an argument. Give him a hug, tell him you understand his decision and you are there for him - it works! I came back and married my girlfriend and was happy I'd thought it through and she didn't nag once!
Some men may feel the relationship is moving too fast and some men are afraid of commitment. He may even realize he's very much in love with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you and needs time to be sure of his decision.
Try being patient. If he's worth it he'll be back. If not consider yourself lucky you found out now.
Depending if you are in your teens or 20 or over, this is a sign of immaturity. Couples, whether they are going together, living together or are married should be learning the tools of communication. If this was the case in your situation then he should have explained himself to you by simply sitting down with you and expressing how he was feeling. Let him know that it goes both ways and you aren't going to sit around while he takes his time trying to make up his mind. Also remind him that you both should be able to sit down and talk things out.
[Comment:]I disagree. Even if they had a still unresolved argument, he may need to think about what each has said in a neutral environment. It seriously hampers my analyzing abilities and objectivity if there's someone I have a conflict with within my perception range, or there's a noticeable time limit. To analyze FEELINGS, I need to be ALONE, free of any short-term threats or pressure.
However, it looks more like he's just forgotten how life without her feels (honesty precluded). ]
He's cheating!I believe that when you feel that something is not feeling right, then you two, not just as individuals, but as a couple need to get yourselves to counseling. A third party is needed to be a neutral in order for the two of you to see things clearly. This is a marriage and you can not fix any problems if you are not working together. Just walking away to see how you "feel" is cowardly and is not a truly viable option, even if in the end you don't stay together.
it means that she cares about you and she loves you as a person, but to be in love is a way bigger step.
find a new guy who you are sure really loves you
Not exactly, a friend of Naruto's tells Sakura and then she feels really bad
LYING. Narcissists can't FEEL genuine emotion. They are just WORDS to him.
i dont think there is any 1 way to tell if he really loves you or not. Me and my boyfriend have broken up 2 times and we are now back togather for a 3rd. I just have 2 believe that this is all a part of being in love and i really do blame myself for every fight that we have had and are going to have. If he really loves you then he will tell you when he feels like you love him to. And if he really really loves you then he will marry you!!! i hope this helped if not just ask again.............. <3 ya millions, Rachel
Tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same. You need to know for sure before you can do anything.
it means that he or she loves you
yes
You really can't base whether or not someone loves you just by them saying it. She has to be able to show you. If she is respectful of your feelings, supportive, and able to communicate with you how she feels then she loves you.
well i am a guy and i think my girlfriend feels the same way but deep in side i am shore he likes you
yes he loves karina arevalo he really loves you yes he loves karina arevalo he really loves you
Why should you care how he feels after you've broken up with him? If you really want to know how he feels about you, wait 20 years and see if he tries to contact you again. If not, then you made a wise decision to leave him.