How do you know if a guy is shy or not interested?

Answer 1

I am a girl who is a major flirt, and I flirt with anyone and everyone. I have seen shy/smart guys show interest in these ways: 1. they watch you/ stare at you from a distance and quickly act flustered if you return the stare and look down 2. they stumble with their words and don't form complete sentences when talking to you, but don't do the same with other girls 3. they will be quick to accomodate when you say, drop a pen or book and they look into your eyes when returning it. 4. They smile a little while looking at you, but the smile goes away slightly when you make eye contact. 5. Smart guys sometimes are quick to correct others on facts that are wrong, but for you they either overlook it, or gently correct you. This happened to me once. I fell for the smartest guy in my class, and I offered a study group with him. He was always correcting others harshly in a way that made him look superior, but when I messed up almost all the facts when studying together, all he said was that I was slowly improving and he gently helped me out with remembering the answers. We ended up going out for 5 months. 6. They talk to your friends about you. You can approach their friends and be friendly. They might mention him talking about you. Been there. Done that. Sometimes these don't always follow through, but they have always worked for me and my friends. but NEVER EVER EVER try to put down others in order to get the guys attention. this shows the shy guy that you are a harsh individual with no respect for others. Be light and fun and most of all outgoing. Make the guy feel as if being around you is always a positive experience. This makes getting him to open up to you a lot easier. And do not always talk about old boyfriends around them. Shy guys don't want to deal with all that emotional baggage. Im pretty sure that if a relationship doesn't result from these, a excellent friendship will!

Answer 2

well you can tell if he or she is shy be twiching or if they make an excuse like im ........ busy like they wate and pause for a second.How are they not interested well lets see they just lie to you a hole lot or they test you like what do you like to eat humm sushi then they say i hate that see they wait for you to say an answer!!!!!

Answer 3

Well, they don't speak much, aren't really involved, and always looking around to see were everyone is at. I know this because I am shy.