i could think of many ways.but the main one would to talk to him about it explaining it and how its over.=if its not over dont tell him it is then go out everynight and not come in til late!=
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∙ 15y agoNo, it is not. work on saving the marriage or get out of it.
Answer Tell her how you feel then show her over time that you are different.
Talk about it with him. Remember, the past doesn't matter that much now he's with you. But if he still misses his exes, he might not be the best choice for a boyfriend at the moment. And if you're the one trying to get over HIS past relationships, you don't need to! They're his past problems, not yours.
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A narcissist is not likely to treat a wealthy woman better than he treated his past relationships. The reason for this is because he can't truly change his ways without help.
To be honest, you will never be completely over your past/past relationships. All you can really do is not dwell on it too much. Try to keep yourself busy as much as possible so that your not thinking about whatever it is that's bothering you all the time.
Obviously if your boyfriend has trust issues they likely occurred throughout his past whether it be through his childhood or past relationships which is something you cannot help him "get over". Issues such as this that may go deep is something he may have to seek help for and work at on his own will but until then will likely be a barrier if it is there already. If he is aware these issues are there you could speak with him and be supportive but don't pressure or push him as he has to admit, want and work at when he wants to. Obviously if your boyfriend has trust issues they likely occurred throughout his past whether it be through his childhood or past relationships which is something you cannot help him "get over". Issues such as this that may go deep is something he may have to seek help for and work at on his own will but until then will likely be a barrier if it is there already. If he is aware these issues are there you could speak with him and be supportive but don't pressure or push him as he has to admit, want and work at when he wants to.
You could help assure her that this time will be different then in the past. As for asking her out, the best way is in person and to be direct. If you are nervous you can use a outgoing friend to help.
The past relationships of one's spouses can be quite a burden to shoulder. However, one must always understand that what was in the past is long over, and your wife is now with you because she loves you for who you are.
It's the way of life. People like to talk about their past and dump their past on other especially in relationships. You have to bear with it. Patience.
To be honest, you will never be completely over your past/past relationships. All you can really do is not dwell on it too much. Try to keep yourself busy as much as possible so that your not thinking about whatever it is that's bothering you all the time.
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