How do you get your boyfriend to be nicer to you?

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Actually that does not always work, trust me, my boyfriend just gets madder at that then anything and he is not one to talk out a problem and, whoa, if you ignore him be sure your ready for the sleeper hold. You just have to figure out what they do listen and don't listen to you got to somehow get it threw there brain. I am still in the process of it and I hope to make it work but honestly, we've been together a year and it just takes time and you have to have the patience and be strong enough if you really want to make it. If he gets mad and says hurtful things, what I do is just ignore it because when it gets to you and he knows it does he does it more because he knows it gets to you. Just act like he didn't even say that say something nice back to him that's what I do and he stops and we start getting along again. LIKE THEY SAY, BOYS MATURE SLOWER THEN GIRLS.

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This question and the answer, although well put, is so sad that it's pitiful. What is the point of your relationships with these guys? It makes no sense. A boyfriend is supposed to be a friend; if someone regularly makes you feel bad or even deliberately wants you to feel bad, they are not a friend! You should be asking yourself why you feel you need a 'boyfriend' that you need to 'get used to it'. Nonsense. I think that you are demonstrating your neediness to tolerate such behavior. By this time, hopefully you've figured this out for yourself. But, while correcting the grammar of the first answer, I really thought I should mention this.