By changing your perspective about yourself. If you feel resentment after a relationship is long gone they you are either suffering from very low self esteem or you soley blame yourself for the mistakes caused in that relationship. Sit down and think or jot down things that made the relationship healthy when it was and things that caused it to tumble down and if you find the advantages were more or less, still there's no need to beat yourself up at all. Appreciate that you were happy and some point and even love if at all, then look yourself in the mirror and acknowledge the fact that you are still good looking enough to get back on the dating scene and promise yourself to do better next time.
Displesure
Their relationship is torn apart by Gene's resentment of Finny and his dependency on him.
Focusing on the past leads to anger and resentment which in turn leads to prolonged anxiety.
Relationship jealousy, resentment, covetousness, spite, backbiting, and evil eye.
Feelings of jealousy will become resentment and can ruin a relationship if allowed to grow.
To continue with feelings of resentment against someone as a result of something that happened in the past
Its not up to you to deal with his past relationship problems. I am sure that you know that the past problems will come into the new relationship until he deals with his past problems. Don't wait for him to deal with them. You have your life to lead.
There is no slavery today therefore there is no present relationship with the past.
If you have someone, the relationship exists at the current time. If you had someone, the relationship used to exist but no longer does. (If you have had someone, the relationship existed for a period or for periods in the past. If you had had someone, the relationship existed for a period or for periods in the past but ended at some point in the past.)
The relationship status of a sword in Asia is 'committed', as it is in a relationship with the 'bow and arrow' of the past.
It depends. Maybe. Maybe not.
It can if you have a lot of baggage.