The best way to avoid lust is to start focusing on the better aspect of it. Lust / infactuation is the other side of the coin called Relationships. The person you love, you will not lust for it.
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One can get over lust by denying oneself from whatever the object of lust is over. One needs to learn how to suffer and through suffering learn to survive and exist without the indulgence in the object of lust.
Lust is when you only care about the physical in the relationship or thing or whatever. You only want the person sexually. To stop, you need to start thinking about the person not in a sexual way. Get to know them as a person. Learn about them. Don't make sex or whatever else it is your top priority. Get to know the person first. Sex will come in time