First of all lets ask what impact has the phrase "i love you" on a man.
If he is not in love with the woman who says that 2 things can happen
*if wants to be called a man,better break up with her as soon as possible and don't
say a fake "i love u too baby" cause eventually they WILL break up
*Also some "bad" guys who wanna play it playboys often find this as an opportunity
to create a permanent "way to relief themselves" that will always be there when they
have no where else to go ( yes u know what i mean).
On the other hand if the man who listens to the "i love you" phrase is really in love with
the person who says it and he believes that that person actually believes that, then
things may turn really interesting.
*If he was jealous , he will stop express it (at least to one point), or he will try to keep
it ti the minimum. Girls have also to make sure of this with their actions.
DO NOT PROVOKE HIM....(this works vice versa)
*Time by time real trust is created ,don't forget to express your feelings at any case
even if they are good or bad, a man has to know every side of his partner (also vice
versa)
Now to the main question
"Why does a man asks you if you love him?"
If you have never told him that you love him then in my opinion (i am a man)
he loves you and he wants to listen to it from you first before he express his feelings.
If you are together for some time and this phrase has been said and he still asks u then
probably u have not say for a while (insecurity) or it is you who had created all this question
with your behavior the last days/months.
AGAIN... SHARE ALL YOUR FEELINGS AND PROBLEMS.... to avoid this awkward situations.
If you are not ready to say "i love you" or answer "i love you too" then don't
BUT in the second case be honest, don't tell him that you love him back and
BREAK UP WITH HIM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE... he will appreciate that better
than a fake " i love you too"
ALSO by not answering "i love you too" is a cause of break up and yes if he has any pride
he will break up with you.
One last advice, get A BIT drunk... a human's true character reveals after drinking
or while plying cards(with money) , this is out of experience
PS: all of the above apply to both sexes .
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Get someone else to do it... Or you can just hint him in, and then wrap it up, by saying: "Do you like me?" and/or: "Who do you like?"
Just ask him
Answer
You should not have to ask. He will show it and you will know it.