nothing in ur finger
yes
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First start with rubbing the outside of your vagina to get it ready. Then when your comfortable, put one finger in your vagina about halfway, it may hurt a little, move your finger in and out. keep doing this until it stops hurting. Then you can make your way up until your comfortable and able to got all the way up. If your a virgin, your hymen may break and you will or will not bleed. I suggest you do it over the tub.Enjoy! Hope this worked for you!
Stress ball, punching a pillow, take a deep breath and think of something that makes you laugh as you breath out.
No
Why do I bruise without actually hurting myself
Smell
Be honest.
carefully
yes
Actually you don't "have to" at all.