How can you tell if someone is trying to hook-up with you if you're a guy?

Answer 1

so right, your the guy.

and your worried about a girl trying to hook up with you?

she'll leave subtle hints at you, and act really close. you'll become best friends with her and spend time together all the time. you'll hold hands and hig and generally be really close, but you'll not thing anything of it. sometimes it might be innocent and she might just want the friend in you, but if your really that close, and spend loads of time together, then there is the possibility that she's expecting more out of it. she'll ask for your hoodie when she's cold, and when shes cuddling upto you, she'll hold your hand at the same time and you might come close to kissing every once and again. if she does nothing to stop this then shes probably into you. you may not want to get with her, but if you do then do something about it before she likes someone else. you can usually tell with girls, they seem to make it more obvious when they like someone then boys do. if your intrested then great, but take it slow. because trust me, you dont want to ruin such a great friendship by ruining the relationship up in the first few weeks. its very easy to do, so dont. you'll regret it for a long time, so its probably best for you to take time thinking about weather you really want to go through with it all and put HER through it all if things dont go so well. she'll probably get more upset than you will, girls take these things more seriously than boys. and as for if your not really close friends to begin with but a certain girl is getting closer and closer to you, and acting all nice when she may usually blank you, this is a sure sign. talk to her about the situation and question her about her feelings. MAN YOU TALK ALOT!!! GOD!