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There is a saying that Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels. If you have to leave your spouse, the time needed may be shorter since you essentially remove the offending person from your life. At first it is harder, but you can start moving forward. If your spouse owns up to the mistake and is willing to work through all the steps to recovery (including listening to you for several months or longer as you sort it out), it will take longer. But, you may end up with a deeper marriage to that person. Some therapy from a third party will definitely help you regroup.
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Is your spouse cold and distant to everyone after his affair including your children?
if he had an affair, then he shouldn't still be your "spouse", in my opinion.
How do you begin healing after your spouse affair?
slash the tires of the car belonging to your spouse.
What can you do if my spouse who had an affair still commincates with the other?
Nothing. It is strange that your spouse still communicates with the person she had an affair with, but aslong as it is just words and not actions, it is still acceptable.
Why can't we blame the spouse from their affair instead of the other woman?
You should be able to blame your spouse fully, since he/she allgedly cheated on you, whether the person they had the affair with realized it or not.
Why i Had affair got divorced?
If you had an affair, your spouse must have had a very broken heart, and can not love you again, or trust you. what you do for pleasure with someone other than your spouse causes your spouse a great deal of pain, that's why it is usually frowned upon.
How long does it take a marriage to heal from an affair?
it doesnt happen...
Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
Will you ever feel that security and peace that you once had from your spouse after his affair?
Maybe but not really. I has to do with the way you are and the way he/she asks after the affair.
How do you know if your marriage will survive after your spouse affair?
You don't. You have to make an educated guess based on your knowledge of your spouse's personality.
How will you feel if your spouse compared you to his affair partner?
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
How can you tell if its sex addiction or affair?
Its a sex addiction if your spouse catches you.
What are ways you can cope with the aftermath of your spouse affair?
Ice cream and masturbation
