How can you avoid becoming emotional after making love?

Answer 1

Why would you think you shouldn't be emotional after making love? Ask yourself that. Did someone tell you not to be? Tell them to "kiss your grits!" Wait a second .. in this compromising situation they just might! LOL Seriously, women are much more emotional after sex. As we know having sexual intimacy is about sharing ourselves with the true love of your life and you can't get closer than making love. It's a release mechanism and both partie's hormones skyrocket (of course the women's hormones are much more fragile) and some women cry, others get lovey and want to cuddle. Personally, I'm a cuddler. There are men who can cry just from the release of the sex act or they love that person a great deal, so don't let any person tell you that your feelings are wrong. Think of this one: You love each other, have great sex, share your souls, reach the sky and then this person rolls over as if nothing happened. Now I ask ... "who has the problem here?" It sure isn't the person getting emotional. Also, sometimes when we aren't ready to have sexual relations with that person or we feel guilty in any way a woman can cry. She probably hates the natural feeling of wanting to make love, although realizes it is wrong at this particular time. Never let anyone tell you how you should feel after sex. If you want to cry, cuddle or whatever that is your right and if your partner can't understand that then you don't have the right partner at all.