Does sex hurt a woman

Answer 1

Actually, sex should not hurt either partner. But there are a few things that may occur that could hurt a woman:

# She's a virgin. First-time sex can, and probably will, hurt a woman, but it should not hurt her much. It would be more of a discomfort than actual pain. Men must proceed with caution, and take every step necessary to make sure she is comfortable and pain-free; otherwise, it could, and probably would, completely ruin the moment and give her bad vibes later on in life about sex. Take it slow and listen to her every moan, groan, grunt, or even "ouch." Communicate with her and allow her to trust that you will listen to her needs and will do your best to not hurt her. # No lubrication. Virgin or not, having sex without lubrication is like rubbing the coarsest sandpaper against your scrotum - it doesn't feel good at all. This can also ruin the moment. Lots of foreplay - foreplay that she enjoys (ask her) - will prep her for intercourse. Condoms usually contain some sort of lube already, but if you're not using one, either natural lube or some store-bought help (think: KY Jelly) is fine, as well as saliva (think: cunnilingus!). Cunnilingus doesn't just douse her in your saliva for lube, but it is almost a guarantee that she will produce more than enough lube herself... naturally. # You're too rough. Sex is not about pounding her as hard and as fast as you can - at least, not right away. This has to be built up and saved for the final peaking moments. Listen to her. If she's sounding more like she's grunting from lifting heavy objects, rather than moaning from extreme pleasure, chances are you need to slow down and take it easier on her. # You're too large. Although this is every man's dream, that he is this large, but it's listed last because it's the least likely reason for sex hurting a woman - believe it or not. The vaginal opening is very much like elastic and can actually stretch more than enough to accommodate for any normal-sized penis, which is what 95% of men have (as much as men like/want to think they are way above average, they actually aren't quite so blessed - not a bad thing by any means). Of course, foreplay helps loosen her up to do this.