Yes. There is no better feeling the world than being held closely and knowing that someone wants you, just as bad as you want them. When you are looking at each other with no
words to explain how you make each other
feel, when he kisses you so sweet and gentle barely touching your lips and running his
hand along your face. When he says he can
feel your heartbeat, and puts one hand over
your chest, and whispers in your ear he loves
you. This is probably the most ideal moment
to be 'fingered' because you are turned on,
and just need more, and hopefully wet. Also
before he goes straight there, he should
focus on other places that feel good aswell,
neck, wrists, arms, shoulders, tummy, and
just along the pelvic bone, make sure you are
both keeping eye contact with each other
throughout. He'll know when you're fully
ready, and relaxed enough, for him to move
further. he should keep easing your nerves
by soft kisses, and whispering. As he gets
closer he may caress the inside of the thigh
to just let the blood flow slow down and flow.
Even wetter, from your own lubrication that
your vaginal walls produce when you are
aroused, he should start to stimulate your
clitoral area (circular motions are most preferred) with his middle and ring finger,
because they have the lighter touch. Most
importantly is be GENTLE, let her moan, kiss
her more, be slow about it, and let him know
what feels good, and what you want by rotating your hips, telling him, and by him just listening to your breathing. Slide in and out of her, still stimulating the clitoris, not to hard, still be light with touch. Keeping a steady rhythmic thrusting motion, not to hard, but just enough to give pleasure and finally, as she's reaching peak to orgasm, you'll definitely be able to tell, her legs will fall open more, her back and pelvis may arch upward for your fingers, and her breathing will most likely be heavy, but it is extremely important to keep that steady rhythmic pace, getting faster, until finally.. BAM. it happens, the vagina contracts with pure ecstasy around your fingers, it will tighten with an 'open and close' kind of contraction. You have just given your partner a clitoral orgasm, pleasure, but most of all, an expression of love has been emotionally, but most of all physically felt between you two.
I hope this helps couples/teens out there, and shows them that this can bring you closer together, and bring you further in your relationship. Just be sure you trust your partner, and you want to give everything you can to him/her, and would do anything for them. Because that is love. And you can't go wrong with something that is both emotionally, and physically satisfying.
giving small directions or even guiding him
with your hand. As you are even wetter now
and more turned on, he should make his way
down to the vaginal canal, you can use 1 to
2 fingers depending on what feels the bet to
your partner, but be very aware of her body
language and how she reacts, heavy
breathing, arched back, racing heart,
moaning, are all good signs that she wants you to keep going. Continue to slide inside of
her, slowly and softly, going slow and having
a bit of resistance. This should feel incredible for her/you. Don't forget to keep sharing intimate looks, keep
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It honestly just depends on your body and the size of your cervix. It also might vary based on the guy and his technique. Sometimes the boy can do it really hard or go to deep and it might hurt. Other times the boy might do it slow and gentle and that will feel good.
Fingering someone is basically masturbating for them. Never enter a females vagina if she is not aroused, wet and swollen. then it will hurt. She will usually not get aroused by someone sticking a finger inside of her. Stimulating the outside is a must for any woman to orgasm.
Well when I finger myself, I can't really feel anything. There's like no pleasure. None. If anything, it actually kinda hurts, for me anyway. And I don't use lube.