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It depends on the woman of course. I am a lifestyle cuckold fetishist. My wife has cuckolded me since before we were married over a dozen years ago. Although quite traditional, buttoned-down, and vanilla in other ways, she latched onto cuckolding with alacrity from the first as the place where my BDSM kinks overlapped with her own desires.
Having been in committed relationships before, she was reluctant to tie herself to the idea of sex with just one man for the rest of her life (commitment phobia is not just a guy thing.) Cuckolding also freed her from the conflict she felt as a modern woman over the medieval baggage of marriage and wifehood wherein she was expected to submerge herself into a male-led team. Finally, she just loved the naughty fun of feeling like she was doing something illicit. She loved (and loves) sneaking around and feeling like she is pulling the wool over the eyes of coworkers and friends. She has all the taboo thrill of cheating, without the risk.
(Or most of the risk, anyway. The biggest things that hold her back at times or lead her to cool it some are health concerns (of course) and the desire not to be embarrassed publicly. Family and most friends don't know and my wife is not anxious to imagine what they would think of her if they did, so we keep it discreet.)
On the other hand, I have known women who would have been made miserable by it. (A few of her friends who know are still uncomfortable.) Remember that many women (and men, I think) prize security and intimacy over sexual adventure. Rather than feeling a little thrill, they will feel uncomfortable and insecure in a cuckolding situation. They will doubt whether their kinkster partner can handle their fantasies in real life. They will worry that in some part of him (or themselves) it will change how they feel and ruin everything. They may feel like they are being used as a puppet in his psychodrama, rather than being valued and loved. They will suspect it is all an excuse to make them be the bad guy - or they will feel for reasons of morals, temper, or religious conviction that they are doing wrong. They might feel they are aiding and abetting, even exploiting, a weakness in the person they love and that will make them feel bad about themselves. Etc., etc.
On the other hand, my wife loves that she can get the alpha male dominance that turns her on from lovers, but not have to put up with it in her daily life when she prefers a more modern, sensitive, reasonable relationship.
As I said, it all depends on the woman.
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What did the Elizabethans believe a cuckold was?
A cuckold is a man whose wife is not faithful to him. It is considered an embarrassing and unmanly situation.
What is the opposite of cuckold?
I don't know of one single word that is an antonym for cuckold. Cuckold means a man whose wife is unfaithful to him. So the antonym of that would be a man whose wife is faithful to him. Alternatively there is also the "Bull" - which is the supposed term often used for that "other" man, especially if it is frequently the same other man - essentially making him the opposite to the submissive, rejected/humiliated, relationship bonded cuckold. A cuckold is, in strict usage, a male by definition (although in fetish usage a cuckold can be either sex.) A female cuckold is a "cuckquean."
What is cuckold husband?
A husband is a man who is married. A cuckold is a married man whose wife/partner is sexually active another man (or other men). The adding of "husband" to cuckold is reundant, strictly speaking, as all cuckolds are husbands. However, in contemporary usage, cuckolding is also a BDSM feitsh in which one partner gets a masochistic thrill from the other partner's "non-monogamy." In this feitsh the "cuckold" need not be married, so the term "cuckold husband" is sometimes used to indicate the marital bond.
How do you use cuckold in a sentence?
Cuckold is a noun meaning a man who is married to an unfaithful wife. Cuckold is also a verb meaning to make a cuckold of. Example sentences: In some Greek myths, Zeus cuckolded men with beautiful wives. In Shakespeare's play, Othello was convinced that he was a cuckold. Guinevere and Lancelot cuckolded King Arthur. Only the wittol knows he is no cuckold.
What should you call man who has been cheated on?
The term is a cuckold.
What is a cuckold male?
In traditional usage a cuckold is a man who's wife/girlfriend engages in sexual activity with another male. In word connotes that the cuckold is deceived and unwilling (as opposed to a "wittol," meaning a knowing cuckold reconciled to the situation.) It appears often in medieval, Elizabethan, and Restoration literature and is also used in legal proceedings in many English speaking countries. In contemporary usage it is also common in the BDSM fetish community to denote a fetish in which a person (usually but not always male) gets a masochistic sexual thrill from their partner having sex with another person. In this usage a "cuckold male" would be a man who has such a fetish. (The use of the term "cuckold" for women with analogous masochistic inclinations is rarer but not unheard of.)
If a man whose wife commits adultery is a cuckold what is a woman whose husband commits adultery?
The female variant of cuckold is cuckquean. However, it should be noted that the connotations of cuckoldry are currently taken to two extremes. There are some men who abhor the idea of being made a cuckold whilst there are others who relish this experience. A man who is a willing cuckold is called a wittol, but the term cuckold is used in fetish circles. (The pleasure of being made a cuckold can either come from the sadomasochistic humiliation of being "forsaken" or from the opportunity to "share" the experience in the form of an open relationship.)
What are some of the words used to identify a cuckold?
Some common words used to identify a cuckold include "cuck," "beta male," "cuckquean" (female equivalent), or "wittol" (historical term).
What does the Cuckold Forum offer?
The Cuckold Forum offers a wide variety of services. Particularly the forum is used as a dating site for women and men. The site offers people to take part in affairs.
What is an Acteon?
An Acteon is an obsolete slang term for a cuckold, a man married to an unfaithful wife.
What do cuckold eat?
Whatever they like. They are just people like everyone else.
What symbol can you wear to show a cuckold relationship men and women?
The symbol of porn. Which is a dick going in to a pusy
