Do older married men use younger women to feed their egos?

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Before you asked this question you knew the answer. Yes, they do. Some older men and women try to recapture their youth. It's tough realizing you are getting older (hopefully one would come to their senses sooner or later) as society puts such pressure on physical appearances .... youth, beauty and "you gotta be one of the beautiful people." Anyone that buys into that garbage needs to seek help. It's a gimmick to get people pay out big bucks for plastic surgery, special cosmetics, and famous name labeled clothing. Until people learn it's what's inside you that counts and that one must try to learn about themselves first and then strive to improve on that as a human being they will never, never be truly happy. Egos at any age simply destroy the human spirit and do little else.

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For that matter, young women often use older men to feed their need for material possessions.
A younger women is just more attractive to an older man. Physically, firm breasts not old and sagging. Tight fresh vagina, not coated with a spray scent. Smooth skin without the stretch marks and varicose vein's And Egos,. Of course. So if an older man is seen with a younger woman, he may be conceived as being Rich, or perhaps virile with a large healthy sexual appetite. Possibly seen by other men as Having a large Johnson. ego is a big part of it, however a physically fit body is always the best to lay with at night and make love to each day.

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I moved to Asia and married a younger woman because I found those women of my age/era in my own country too well off and not interested in a permanent relationship. I did not want to be "cast off" at the whim of another woman who had lost my fancy. Besides being cheaper to live here, I am unlikely to be slammed into a nursing home or C class hospital if I lose my marbles. These people appreciate family whoever they are or may be and they look after them into their old age until death. Having retired and being on a fixed income, I sought a cheaper place to live where the money will go further. Yes my wife is 40 years younger but we are both happy and well integrated with the rest of our families. I am still an active man and we intend family. This will cement our relationship even further and it has nothing to do with sex or ego. While it may seem embarrasing to some people, evolution predicts that the species becomes stronger with long lived people procreating but this has nothing to do with my reason for it. Look around Asia and see how many happy marriages there are. If you want a good wife and old family values, come to Asia.

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People get married for a number of reasons. While it is undoubted, that TRUE LOVE may be the reason why some people make a long-term commitment, among the lower social and economic class folk, especially, marriage is way to feed the EGO. Ego, is a big reason why a lot of people decide to have kids, too. A lot of people jump on the bandwagon and get married, to avoid being ruled the odd one out. And most marriages turn out to be illegitimate promises (as 75% divorce rate proves). It may be the norm to get married, but the decision less likely to be a rational one.