Stop being intimate with him?
No!
The fact that you've been together for 11 YEARS & he's still your BOYFRIEND is suspicious in itself. It's apparent he's not trying to commit or spend his life right you. If you know he's up to no good, leave him. Where there's smoke, there's probably a fire.
When there is no respect.
Be yourself :)Improvement; I am 20 years old. I am in a wheelchair. I had my first boyfriend when I was 14. I had my daughter when I was 17. My present Partner and I have been together for almost two years now.
He said he loved you the day before he broke up with you, because he does love you but not in a boyfriend way just in a way that he cares about you.Just like a brother loves you or a best friend does.
I am assuming that there is a sexual relationship going on between the two of you. Because he has children he's probably afraid to commit to a relationship because of the children. It doesn't matter what the reason, stop letting him abuse you in his selfish manner. Tell him to commit or you are walking away from it all and not more trips! If he refuses to commit then you are only providing him with his sexual needs and perhaps being a built-in babysitter.
Go out to places like the park, shopping mall, movies etc. Just being together, but not all the time as he will want to be with his mates most of the time.
no
You can get him a necklace, a ring, or get pictures of the two of you together.
Maybe there's something on his mind, and he's distracted. Just ask him, what's up.
Whose he