by beating him up
yes go to http://www.igarchive.com/s/sim-girls-v4/cheats/
The husband can only beat the wife if there relationship is in the Negatives (-1 through -100)
Here is a money cheat for Sim Girls. Enter the name testbug and you will receive a high level of stats and $99,999 dollars.
On sims 2 and 3 you can. I'm not sure about sims 1.
tomoko favourite dvd
SIMGIRLS version 5.1
tdh
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Surf
alexandra sim-wise
Successful dates with Tomoko
poodle