St Ives Age Defying Lotion is oil-based and, as such, won't be suitable as lube due to the fact that it is incompatable with condoms. The best lubes are widely available water-based lube - they're cheap, or you pick them up free from a great number of places (your GP, local family-planning clinic, or GUM clinic).
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"Butt plugs give a feeling of fullness in the anus with contributes to sexual arousal and an incredibly powerful orgasm for both men and women." Quoted from http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/howtouseabuttplug.htm And yes, they do work. You don't need it to be big either, a small one is just as good as a large one. Try a rubber plug because they don't flop as you attempt to stick it in and also use lube. It's painful without lube.
Well, friend, it's important to listen to your body and do what feels right for you. If you're curious about exploring new sensations, just remember to go slowly, use plenty of lubrication, and stop if anything feels uncomfortable. It's all about being gentle with yourself and embracing your curiosity in a safe and healthy way.