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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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How do i get my girl back who i love and still has feelings for me?

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Have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and listen to her perspective. Show her that you are willing to make changes and work on the relationship. Give her space and time to think things through, and respect her decisions.

What were the short stories called that told of legend and adventure in the west?

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Those short stories were called Westerns. They typically focused on themes of adventure, exploration, and the rugged frontier lifestyle of the American West. Popular Western authors include Zane Grey and Louis L'Amour.

Your boyfriend's ex invited him to her birthday party he actually went do you have the right to be mad?

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It's natural to feel upset or uncomfortable in this situation. Communicate your feelings with your boyfriend calmly and openly to understand his perspective and ensure your boundaries are respected in the future. Trust and transparency are key for a healthy relationship.

Should you feel sorry for your ex-Narcissist who was mean to you and dumped you?

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I would say that if it helps YOU, go ahead and feel sorry for them. Let me explain: First, I am not an expert by any means. If this is difficult for you please get some counseling.I will tell you what has helped me though, with the help of my counselor. A narcissist should not be excused from their bad behavior. I truly believe that they know they are treating you bad. They likely don't care because they are so consumed with themselves and their own need for validation. The thing that made the difference to me was knowing that a narcissist doesn't care because he is INCAPABLE of it. They just don't know how. This is very tragic for them. Just think! They will likely never be able to feel love the way you or I are able. They are at a huge disadvantage in almost every aspect of their lives. They are never happy and they live in a constant state of inner turmoil. I read somewhere, "How can you hate a snake for being a snake?" Same with a narcissist. It is what it is and we can't change it. We can feel sorry for them enough to know that we can't blame ourselves. If this helps you accept and move on, go ahead and feel sorry for them. Just please don't stay with them! No amount of pity will change them. Good luck. You are not alone! Don't feel sorry for him, but learn to forgive. I have on my fridge, "If you can't forgive the person then they still have control of you." Narcissists feel little to no remorse and they will just jump from one prey to the other. They are hunters without knowing it. No counseling will help them because they feel they know more and are more highly intelligent than most people. Good luck I've been feeling sorry for my ex-narcissist for quite awhile now, even though he was the one who dumped me after I found out he was cheating on me with a friend -- who was engaged to someone else, by the way. A real sad mess for everyone involved...But, I'd always remember his sad sad stories of his childhood and forgive him for hurting me so much because he didn't know any better and someone who went thru such traumatic events couldn't possibly be expected to rise above that. Well -- and maybe this will help you, too-- after 8 months of crying over him, therapy, medication, and still feeling bad over his sad childhood, I was given a gift that I believe was no coincidence: I flew on an airplane with someone from his family, who shockingly revealed to me that these sad stories were, in fact, lies. Everything I believed about this guy -- lies. Everything that reeled me in, with my big heart and huge capacity for love -- lies. He's a narcissist, which I only realized after he so ruthlessly discarded me, and that's what they do -- lie to evoke sympathy, which equals Narcissistic Supply. So, think about all of those things about yours that make you sad, and remember my story...

Why did he lead you on for two months then say he never loved you?

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It's possible that he wasn't able to communicate his true feelings or intentions honestly from the beginning. People may lead others on due to fear of confrontation, inability to set boundaries, or simply because they are unsure of their own emotions. It's important to recognize that his actions are a reflection of his own struggles rather than a reflection of your worth.

What is the Word to describe saying something gently?

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The word to describe saying something gently is "tenderly." It suggests speaking in a soft, caring, and affectionate manner.

Can couples break up even if they just had a baby?

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Yes, couples can break up even if they just had a baby. The arrival of a baby can bring new challenges and stressors that may strain a relationship. It's important for couples to communicate openly and seek support if their relationship is struggling.

If your girlfriend quit showing affection when your affection increased and she said it also happened in a previous relationship should you back off even if you don't want to?

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Yes, if your girlfriend is expressing that she feels overwhelmed by increased affection, it's important to respect her boundaries and give her space. It's important to communicate openly and find a balance that works for both of you. Understanding her needs and concerns is key in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you have a boyfriend and you want to break up with him and you love him so much how do you do it?

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Be honest with your boyfriend about your feelings and listen to his perspective. Choose a private and respectful setting to have this conversation. Allow yourself and your boyfriend time to process the breakup and heal.

Will Crowfeather and Leafpool still love each other in Sunrise?

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No, their relationship ends in Sunrise due to conflicting priorities and responsibilities. Crowfeather decides to stay with the WindClan cats, and Leafpool chooses to dedicate herself to her role as a medicine cat apprentice for ThunderClan.

Why does a woman stay friends with a lover?

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A woman may choose to stay friends with a former lover for various reasons, such as valuing the emotional connection they shared, wanting to preserve the friendship element of the relationship, or simply enjoying each other's company despite the romantic aspect not working out. Each situation is unique and individual motivations can vary.

Who was quoted saying the tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon?

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The quote "The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it" is attributed to W. M. Lewis. Lewis was an author and motivational speaker known for his inspiring quotes on life and self-improvement.

What if your friend is totally the opposite of you?

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Having a friend who is the opposite of you can bring diversity and new perspectives to your life. Embracing these differences can lead to personal growth, increased empathy, and opportunities to expand your horizons. Just because you are different doesn't mean you can't have a strong and meaningful friendship.

What if you think your ex was the best sex you'll ever have and noone else will compare?

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It's common to feel that way after a breakup, but remember that there are plenty of opportunities ahead to explore and have fulfilling experiences with new partners. Everyone brings something unique to a relationship, and you may find that someone else can offer different, but equally satisfying, qualities in the bedroom. Give yourself time to heal and be open to new possibilities.

How do you get rid of the feelings of love you still feel for a sociopath even though you are no longer in contact?

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ANSWER:I am very sorry you are experiencing this. I am too, and it is such a troubling emotion. I know, sometimes you feel like you are obsessing. Sometimes you remember all the wonderful times and your heart starts breaking worse. You are doing the right thing by not maintaining contact.

Remember what really happened. Be very honest with yourself. See the situation for what it really was. You were very much in love, the sociopath was using you. Yes, using you. They really do not know how to treat people correctly, it simply is not in their mental makeup. They have a disorder. You are very hurt because you care about this person. The sociopath does not care about others. I don't mean to be callous, truly. This is just the way this disease/pathology is

ANSWER:When you love someone, the love never really goes away it just changes. Over time this love for this person can become less overwhelming and then less important and eventually a much less significant memory.

There's a joke that goes something like "to get over a man get under another". Well, if you fall in love with someone else you will automatically no longer be in love with the ex, unfortunately you don't have control over the next time you will fall in love again, so you must make do with the time healing solution for now which is no fun but it works somewhat well to the extent that it will reduce and probably even eliminate the pain associated with this feeling of loss. With time you will get used to the feeling of missing the ex. Keep in mind that you might miss him/her more than usual because sociopaths are so good at manipulation that you would end up more affected than in a relationship with someone else. A sociopath can elicit much stronger feelings in you than would happen with a normal person. You might end up being much more infatuated with the sociopath than you would have anyone else who was otherwise equally attractive to you (in looks and in the persona they presented to you). Such that you feel you love this person more than you have loved anyone else even when your logical mind says this should not be the case , that others you have been in relationships with before have treated you much better and deserved your love more. The sociopath is good at manipulating, so you are feeling these feelings as a result of the sociopath's skills. However and remember this: feelings are not reality, they are just feelings, sometimes they correlate with reality sometimes they don't, and a good manipulator can create feelings in you that are unrelated to reality. What's more important about feelings is that they come and go, and although you can't choose which ones come, you can choose to a small extent which ones you hold on to more strongly.

This feeling you have now will pass, eventually. It's tough and you can't believe it now, because you've probably gotten over others much more easily than this one, but this one is different, not in a good way, and that's why you got out of the relationship. The manipulator was so good that he/she has now left you feeling that you can't get over it, but that is just one of the manipulator's tricks. When you think about him/her, change the subject in your mind - think about something else quickly, keep doing this and one day it will be over. I really hope this works because I am going to try it for myself. I too I am trying to get over a sociopath and even though I spotted this personality issue very quickly, it wasn't quickly enough for me to come out unscathed. Good luck, you made it out of the relationship and that's the real victory.

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Sociopaths know how to play innocent and from my experience, they target naive and somewhat inexperienced individuals who will succumb easily to their tactics. They get a thrill out of the sense of power and mastery over the person they are with at the moment. Their love is generally need-based. They will date you when they feel loneliness or some other type of need and will keep you around as long as you don't demand any sort of genuine intimacy that comes from truthful communication that may arise from a relational fight. Once you are no longer needed, they immediately turn their attention to a pool of women they already had in mind prior to meeting you. In fact, you were a part of that pool and you are actually no more special than the woman that they have dated before and after. They used the same tactics before you and will continue to do so afterwards, because they get a high from the feeling of respect from the adoration that they receive from their victim.

Don't even feel bad for the sociopaths because of the sob stories that they tell you. When a normal person undergoes a traumatic past, they don't go around talking about it to everyone they know. They only talk about it to a trusted few. Sociopaths announce it to their victims to gain sympathy and when it comes time that you need some sympathy from him, you will never get it. If you were lying on the ground helpless, he would hop over you and run to save his own life. He will not be that guy who helps someone in need unless others are watching or unless there is some kind of visible reward. He believes that as long as he has demonstrated some sort of good works by helping a just cause, his heart is exempt. He feels in this business transaction of having given money to the poor or gone on a volunteer trip that he has fulfilled his karmic transaction. He does not see the importance of personal beliefs, because they are of no use. You can't show off integrity, so what's the point in having it? Purely driven by selfish needs, this is not someone you can ever rely on to be there for you when you fall. In fact, he is a fearful coward. Those who feel love are able to face fears of all sorts on behalf of their lover. Love brings a man to take a bullet for his beloved. That kind of a strength a sociopath can never have. If there is trouble that affects him personally, you can be sure he'll be skipping like a calf to save himself and as long as no one saw it, it's fine. Plus, he will always have an excuse and it will be an external factor that's at fault. The next worse thing that can happen to losing this person you have loved is to having him.

What is the polite way to ask someone to leave?

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If it's in a relationship just say were having differences right now and I'm really feeling as if I need my own space and I think we should stop seeing each other. If it someone who has worn out their welcome just say I enjoyed your company and I've given you plenty of time to get yourself together but now it's time for you to leave I understand this may not be good time for you but it is for me and you know if need me call me but you have the rest of the day to get your stuff out. or the end of the week or whatever. You know how to talk to someone so you know what you would like to say but say whatever it takes to get them out sometimes people take your kindness for weakness so don't just say it without authority say it like you mean it if it's just GET OUT!! then say that so just say it It's time for you to go GET OUT!!! Good Luck!!! Politely mention that its getting late or that you have things to do. Mention it twice and if they do not respond say," Im sorry but I have things to do so its been nice talking with you but now its time to leave." Also you can ask them what time it is, that is usually a kind hint to leave.

Why is your ex coming back to you for sex although he has had a new girlfriend for a year now?

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It's possible that your ex is seeking physical intimacy without emotional attachment, or he may still have unresolved feelings for you. It's important to set clear boundaries and communicate your feelings to avoid any confusion or hurt in this situation.

Did 2ne1 really break up as been told by newspaper?

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Yes, 2NE1 officially disbanded in 2016. The group released a statement confirming the news and expressing gratitude to their fans for their support over the years. Members have since pursued their individual careers in music and other ventures.

Why would your best friend spread rumors about you?

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Your friend may be feeling insecure or jealous, or they may have misunderstood a situation. It's important to have an honest conversation with them to understand why they are spreading rumors and address any underlying issues in your friendship. Communication and trust are key in resolving conflicts like this.

How do you get a girl who refuses to listen to you to ask her forgiveness can we send her a comic strip i draw to explain the reaction?

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Sending a comic strip may be a creative way to express your feelings, but it's important to ensure that the girl is open to receiving it and that it effectively communicates your message. Before sending anything, try speaking to her in person or writing a heartfelt apology explaining your perspective, feelings, and why you'd like her forgiveness. Communication and sincerity are key in seeking forgiveness.

Should you date at 10?

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No, it is not appropriate to date at 10 years old. Children at that age are still developing emotionally and socially, and engaging in romantic relationships is not suitable or healthy for their stage of development. It is important for children to focus on building friendships and focusing on their education and personal growth at that age.

Do more girls break up with guys or more guys break up with girls?

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girls because they tend to fall for other people more and get mad more easily

How can you stop loving your exboyfriend babydaddy?

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Asked by Brenda114

I think that people sometimes fall in love with their idea of who they want a person to be or who they wish a person was but that is not reality. If you are not together then that is likely because he was not the person you wanted him to be or thought he was. It is okay to continue to love the idea but own the fact that you do not love the reality.

Why my ex call and email me after 2 months that he dump me saying that hes dating someone new and young?

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There could be a few reasons why your ex is reaching out to you. It's possible that he wants to make you jealous or to gauge your reaction. He could also be looking for validation or closure after starting a new relationship. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and decide if engaging with him is beneficial for you at this time.

How do you write to somebody to say you don not love them anymore?

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When expressing that you no longer love someone, it's important to be honest, yet considerate of their feelings. You could say something like, "I wanted to talk to you about our relationship. After much reflection, I've realized that my feelings have changed. I don't love you anymore and believe it's best for both of us to move on."