If your girlfriend agreed to a threesome how do you convince her friend to join?

Answer 1

If you ever find the answer to this one PLEASE let me know.

We did have a threesome last year but it was MMF,she promised me she would return the favour,I'm still waiting.

I think it's not 'how you get her to',it's simply a matter of planning and being in the right place at the right time sometimes.

And lastly,just ask her!!

Answer 2

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It's very unusual for a woman to want a three way. Maybe there is something missing in your sex life, I'd beware of this suggestion unless there is one or two things happening. She may be questioning whether she really likes men and wants to experiment or maybe her preference is women. Either way, I'd watch myself if I were you.

Answer 3

If you are seriously interested in having a threesome with your wife, just ask. Get off the internet, stop researching and communicate. Additionally, unless you are interested in a sanctity-of-marriage debate don't bother reading any of the following "answers." They mainly consist of uber-religious folk condemning you for being a sexual being. Good luck!

AnswerYou don't. If you really need it and you're married, just do it without her. Not that cheating is any better, but in most cases, it's a deal breaker. Someone always seems to get hurt. Imagine if your wife asked you for the same with another guy. So this good looking hung stud comes over and makes her squeal like nothing you've ever heard. Will you ever get that picture out of your head?

You're better off keeping it as a fantasy.

AnswerWhen you marry someone it's to share your life with her and she shares her life with you and marriage is not a mockery of adding a third person into the mix. If you feel the need for this then you were never mature enough to get married in the first place! You should have done her a favor and stayed single. I'm against threesomes and of course, that my opinions and I don't need a rock to fall on my head to realize that some people do feel the need for this either out of perversion or to spice up their so-called dull marriage, but hey, there are other ways to spice your love life up and maintain a stronger marriage and it's called communication and working at the marriage! I've been married for 35 years and yes, there were dull spots in our marriage, but we managed to spice up our relationship without introducing a threesome.

It's a slap in the face to even ask this of your wife and you know it or you wouldn't be on this board. Most women aren't into sharing! I suggest you communicate your sexual needs to your wife and keep the threesome part out of it. If you can't handle this then do her a favor and split up.

If my husband put a compromise to me such as a threesome he'd be wearing his lower lip over his head and it's got nothing to do with age ... I would have nailed his hide even when we were in our twenties.

AnswerTo the above poster marriage means different things to different people. To some people sharing your life together doesn't need to exclude extramarital sexual relations, and to some it does. Some couples might feel uneasy about threesomes. Others might have no problem with it. Some couples are into swinging and swap partners and have threesomes regularly. Nothing wrong with it. It's just a personal preference. My advice is to talk to your spouse about it. If it works for you great. If not that's fine, too. Really though it's probably better to talk about these things before marriage. If you don't know your spouse enough to know whether she'd be interested in a threesome maybe you should've gotten to know her a little more before getting married. But if she agrees and it all works out then great. Different strokes for different folks. AnswerMy question to the above poster is 'why be bother getting married in a church and taking those vows?' If one doesn't believe in the vows and want to go through life together without a threesome then they should have lived together and had a swinging good time. Yes, people do have a choice regarding their sexual preferences, but once you take those vows ... out goes those ideas (or at least they should.) AnswerAnd to the above poster I ask "what if you're not religious or were married in a courthouse?". I don't understand why it matters.

Marriages are social contracts, not religious pacts. This is why you can get married in a courthouse as well as a church. In fact, if it were only religious then you could just run off to a church and get married whenever, without having to get a government license.

The point is that everyone is different and so are all marriages. However, I would suggest that you and your partner should have discussed this before you got married.

AnswerI am assuming this person got married in a church and if by a Justice of the Peace there is a bond. I have nothing against a person's private sexual preferences, but married before God, or taking a vow to each other then I suggest these people that did so dig out those vows (we all get a copy) and read it again. If people are living together and believe that a marriage license is simply a piece of paper go for it, but, if you got married in a church with that thought in your head then you should follow the belief system. Simple ... you don't believe in a religious sect, so don't take the vows and do as you please.

My friends, first of all, I seem to recall that most all Married couples had mistresses in The Bible. Most all were approved by the woman and many times it was MORE than one! Now as far as vows go, any vow or deal, can be changed "if " both parties agree to do so...swinging would not be a violation of those vows if you both agree on the terms and no one is betrayed in any way.

AnswerI have one question to those of you who are making this into a "sanctity of marriage" issue. When did Christianity claim ownership over relationships? That is all a marriage is, it is a relationship. Relationships are different for everyone, therefore marriages will be different for everyone.

Just because you get married in a church, whether you claim that belief system for yourself or not, doesn't mean you are committing yourself to a "traditional" marriage. The reality is that marriage is a journey, it's about learning, changing, and growing.

I haven't had a threesome with my wife, but she knows it is a fantasy of mine. If you are interested in exploring your sexuality with your wife, tell her. If she slaps you or pulls your lip over your head, then something is seriously wrong. She may not be excited about the idea, but a violent reaction to such a proposal is simply not warranted.

In conclusion, those of you opposed to this thread on religious-moral grounds, stop judging and condemning everyone. This world has over 6 billion people in it, they are NOT all going to live like you, and you will NOT agree with everything they do. If you are serious about your religious convictions, stop judging people and start loving people. That's my two cents.

Answer 4

U can suggest it jokingly at first to see how she responds. If she does u can start slow by getting her to web cam her body to another guy and take it from there. Once she's comfortable if she likes the guy she's been web canning u take it from there.

Answer 5

You ask her. If it's not consensual it's rape. If she's willing you can try anal sex and use a dildo at the same time vaginally so she knows what it would be like. Also make sure she's OK with the third party joining in and that he knows what is OK and not. It's entirely up to her and should be done by and with people that are used to do anal so no one gets hurt.

Answer 6

I would say first ask the friend in a casual conversation her view on it. If she doesn't believe in it, look for another friend. Past experience, be careful, you may fall for the other.

Answer 7

just ask her.... she willl either say yes or no... if its a no just say you were joking if yes suggest people for the third person

Answer 8

if she doesnt wanna do it dont make her..... or try to convince her constantly.... itll make the situation worse and shell get agravated with you constantly asking