Why not be gay?
It is not something you can decide. It is just that you develop (sexual) feelings for the same sex. This is not a problem at all. It does not hurt anybody.
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Accept who you are and remember that there are people who love you.
Generally, you are either gay or you are not. Current thinking isthat you are born gay. If people are born gay, then they haveabsolutely no control over this attraction. Heter…osexualrelationships are just as confusing to gay people as homosexualrelationships are to straight people. Gay people are just as likelyto lead happy life and do have loving relationships as straightpeople. People tend to be critical of gay folks due to theirreligious beliefs, lack of knowledge on the subject or fear ofhomosexuality. At the end of the day LGBT (Lesbian Gay BisexualTransexual) are normal people who just want to live their lives theway they are. They do not want to "convert" straight people orcommit various immoral acts that they've been falsely accused ofover the years..
You do the same thing that a straight person would do. You liveyour life to the fullest, struggle with daily obstacles, andpursuit happiness. Being gay doesn't have to represe…nt a person asa whole, does not have to be a label. It is simply a preference.Hope this helped.
Here are various user opinions: . It's probably combination of environment and genetics, orperhaps God blessed you. . No one is really clear on why people are gay, same wi…th notknowing why people are straight. . Generally speaking, it is believed that being gay or straight(or whatever) is a matter of genes or birth order--every time awoman has a boy her next son is more likely to be gay. . Because you were born that way. You didn't (and still don't)have a choice in the matter the same as you don't have a choice inbeing a human being. It's just who you are. . Because you think that the gender you are is fit! There'snothing wrong with that! You are perfect! Some people say no one isperfect, I say every one is, it who you are and you are the mostimportant person in the world! . I am not sure you are gay. Some people that are gay walkdifferent talk different and dress different and are not scared tobe gay. yeah but we boys expect bangtan bae are gay; bangtan has awife! For that question i have a question for you: Why are you straight?Because you think the opposite sex is hot. That comes naturally andso does thinking that the same sex is attractive for homosexuals.It comes naturally and it's not like it's anything you can change.
If you are gay, then you have to be gay. It's not a choice. Youare either born gay or you are not. The choice is in how you handle it. You can choose a happy life ofliving op…enly and honestly, and eventually finding true love, oryou can live in the closet, which is a much harder path to take,with little benefit.
people who are physically and/or emotionally attracted to members of the same gender are gay.
Being gay is up to you its what ever you want to be if you like girls if you like guys. Its who you are. Being gay is when you like the same sex just and FYI
Being gay and out means that it is not a secret that you are gay
If you just realizing you are gay the first steps are acceptingyourself. Sometimes it can be hard to just accept yourself for whatyou are. After you have accepted yourself it …is time to share itwith others, you can take this at your own pace and introduce theconcept slowly, to your closest friends etc. If you are afraid thatpeople will judge you don't tell those people. Going out to supportgay rights marathons are a good way to feel comfortable aroundpeople that are just like you, they can give you confidence andhelp you accept yourself.
Anyone. About 5% of the population is gay, so it is less commonthan left-handedness. Studies have shown that homosexuality appears to be a semi-raregenetic trait. A person is… about twice as likely to be homosexualif they have a sibling that is homosexual. However, that percentagechance is still quite low as doubling it only increases the chanceto 20%.
Then... you're just not gay. Some people are. Maybe you aren't. In this day and age, it shouldn't really matter. Labels suck. Don't use labels to limit your feelings.
We're glad you are getting comfortable with the idea.
If you are not gay, then you probably won't date someone of thesame gender as yourself. Other than that, there is not muchdifference between being gay and not being gay.
There is not book on how to be gay. If you feel that you are gay,then just act naturally.
Possibly but no one can answer that doesnt know you personaly