If he is a NPD it's because he is using them, manipulating him and draining for Narcissistical supply source. If this man is a true NPD a pattern will form in that ....Soon he will do or say something unpredicable that will hurt, upset, demean, belittle one of your other guys leaving them confused and shocked. A game of Twisted will ensue. He will then build the tension, shock him or criticise him repeatedly pushing this guy to the edge and then withdraw long enough for him to recover, gain his trust again and repeat the cycle, draining them of all confidence and self esteem and if anyone tries to intervene he will warn them off and/or turn on them. He feels a sense of power by doing this which will in time make these other men feel weak. The weaker these other men becomes by the narcissists usage, the more powerful your narcissist will feel. Bullying and a game Cat and mouse comes to mind. If he isn't a NPD, he's just using them to boost his ego.
Sounds as though you may be a Narcissist.
Yes, He just doesnt want to admit it around his friends.
It doesnt have to be expensive or anything, just something that was meant genuinely for her should make her happy. Something like a card, a flower, or anything that even though may be small, something that is meaningful to you and her.
The only way is that you're friends with one of her closer friends. It's very hard though because she is not allowed to talk to people she doesnt know
no i think natsume doesnt really allowing things to happen. natsume genuinely loves mikan that he do things to protect her even though others will think that he is rude and mean.
I'm going to say no. but you could follow him on twitter.
She talks to you even though she is with her friends... she doesnt flinch when you touch her, she gives you peanut butter as presents. THANK YOU!
Yes he does I'm not sure what her name is though
i think he generally wants to be friends with you however, if you still have feelings though ignore him..my mom always says you can never be friends with an ex its too hard
The question is help them how? Refer them to counseling, but they don't want to be fixed, though you may want to fix them to be a 'normal' person so you can keep a relationship with them. If you are a lay person and in a relationship with a narcissist, you cannot help them. Just by the nature of your relationship and the pathology of a narcissist, things will get ugly, it will be at your expense and there will be no change in the narcissist. A good therapist will be the one to help a narcissist, but it takes a great deal of work on the part of the narcissist, a commitment to healing, only they don't see themselves as 'broken' or anything wrong with them, so an honest introspective communication with a therapist is rare. It's so hard to understand. Leaving them is best for you though and isn't that sad that that is also the way to help a narcissist, because they are sucking your goodness from you and using it to buoy themselves. So sad.
Because, even if he doesnt want to be with you, you still want to be with him. try to be friends with him and then he will see what a great person you are. never give up!
it doesnt though...