You are a 13 year old girl and your father wants you to shower with him should you?

Answer 1

In most healthy situations when we are children, we are taught, good touch, bad touch. This definitely falls under that category. Even though you did not mention a thing about being touched, showering with your Father can lead to such behavior. I want you to stand up for yourself, and tell him no! And if you are afraid of the consequences you might face, then you need to seek the help of a professional as soon as possible my dear! Try calling your local hospital during the day and ask for the therapist on duty, don't be afraid, once you get some one on the line tell him, or her what is going on. If you are not comfortable talking to a man, you can ask for a woman. This person can better direct you in which direction to go. Therapist at hospitals are always having to report abuse, of all kinds, even sexual. If you don't want to do that may i suggest calling a incest hot line of some sort, if that does not work, please call a sexual assault hot line they can give you the right information also. Please do not let him, or any man push you in to something that is not normal, or healthy. Remember, it's your body, and no one has the right to touch you , and make you feel awkward in any. If you feel that you are in any danger please call 911 before any of the numbers mentioned above. I pray all will be ok, just be strong.