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My first inclination is to think that he wants your attention. Remember, the narcissist only wants and never gives. Best to wonder what is going on behind that stare. If he is a narcissist, he is scheming something that will be good for him, not you. Stay away, please. Peace..mbme I am going through the same thing now. After unceromoniously discardeing our friendship and stabbing me in the back.. he wasted no time in bedding a young naive but nympho half his age. He would not look at me or even acknowledge my existense and would parade her in front of me every day weeks on end. (oh but he was sooo nice to me in front of my boss and ohter infuential coworkers who thought i was crazy for hating him) 6 months later it has come to an ugly end. Dont know why he dumped her and dont care to know. I have found someone else lond since and the N keeps trying to get me involved in converstaion allways looking for some silly reason to talk to me. (we work in the same building)I continue ignoring and giving the cold shoulder. By now everyone a work despises him. His wife cut off finances and he was evicted from his posh apartment. His fancy customized vehicle broke down and he got a cheap used pickup of a make he detests. Friendless, broke and lonely (if they feel that) and he acts like nothing bad ever happened and we should be "friends" again. Puleeze ...I would rather snuggle up with a porcupine!

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To see your reaction. They get off on your reaction - they see everyone as an object and use them to watch their feelings because they have none.

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Its a game. Its all a game. Ignore them and go live a happy life. You will the farther you get from them in body, mind and spirit.

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Because he knows he has "Decieved" you.

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