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background: married man and mistress were in a long term affair that was disclosed to wife. married man and wife separated but married man and mistress remained in contact the entire time. married vehemently denied to mistress that he wanted to reconcile with wife until the wife agreed to reconcile.

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First thing first love, as you already knew that this man is married from the start. You believed to everything he told you. You could have said no to him, but you didn't. Did you think married men who are having an affair behind their wives back will tell the truth, they will not. Most married men who cheated will never leave their family, because for years they built something together, and for them to loose and start all over again will not be their option. So if they can keep their life before they have this hunger for another woman, they rather stay with the wives and have a mistress on the side.

Reality check here, he didn't have to tell you that he wanted to work on his marriage. He didn't even owe you no explanation what he is doing. Being a mistress has some perks, we only a part time lover when they need us. The rest is for his wife..

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13y ago

He probably doesn't care that he got caught.

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First of all, your husband didn't have the rights to talk to his mistress after his affair is been discovered. The purpose of getting caught cheating is for the man to stop if he wanted his life and family back .But if he was concern about his mistress by telling her that he can't talk to her because he needs to settle the problem at home is not a devoted man that will make amends to what he did to you.

I was in your shoes before, but the man that I married called his mistress the day I discovered his love affair and apologizing for hurting her and putting her in the middle of our marriage. This are facts when our spouse had an affair.

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14y ago

because he stupid honey. i would divorce him right now. you don't deserve to be in pain for something stupid like that. Be blessed.

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14y ago

Because the guy loves his wife enough to break it off with you.

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Q: Why would a married man tell his mistress that he doesnt want to talk to her after he got caught cheating when she's been his long time friend for years and he sees her at work everyday?
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